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Sex Without Pain: A Self-Treatment Guide To The Sex Life You Deserve was written by Heather Jeffcoat, DPT, a physical therapist with countless successes in treating pain of this type. Women with vaginismus, overactive pelvic floor, painful intercourse, vulvodynia, vulvar vestibulitis, vestibulodynia, dyspareunia, interstitial cystitis have all benefited from her unique program. Heather uses her orthopaedic background to approach treatment of these muscles like they are....muscles! She utilizes a self-treatment tool called a dilator to provide massage and other muscle relaxation and stretching techniques in a gentle fashion to return a women's muscles back to a resting, rather than guarded, state.

Sex Without Pain: A Self-Treatment Guide To The Sex Life You Deserve

What Others are Saying About "Sex Without Pain ":

I have seen Heather's treatment program work time and time again with my patients. Her unique approach to treating women with painful intercourse through a combination of hands on skills, patient education and the thorough home program outlined in this book has surpassed the results of her peers. Her techniques and expertise have been an invaluable resource to my practice."

- Kerri Parks, MD (Associate Professor Ob/Gyn USC Keck School of Medicine)


I will use it frequently for clients who cannot afford pelvic floor PT or for those who cannot find pelvic floor PT any where near them! I have so needed this resource. The clarity of each step and the drawings are so helpful - I don't know of any other resource that will be as effective for self-help."

- Joyce Penner, RN, MN (Sexual Therapist, Educator and Co-author of The Gift of Sex, Restoring the Pleasure and numerous other publications)


Sex Without Pain is an essential book for any woman suffering with pelvic or sexual pain. Heather's approach is simple and clear. She empowers the woman and her partner with the resources needed to lead a healthy and pain free sex life. A great read for patients and professionals alike."

- Jennifer Briggs, DPT (Women's Health Physical Therapist, Pennsylvania)


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During this time of "safer at home" orders, we have been having to find more creative ways to move at home.

If you are someone that experiences urinary incontinence and/or pelvic organ prolapse you may not be going out now to see a pelvic health physical therapist to guide you through a routine. In this blog post I’m going to go over a few mat pilates exercises I like to do with patients that experience urinary incontinence and/or pelvic organ prolapse (POP). A study done in 2018 by Lausen et al, found that in the group that did mat pilates with standard physical therapy had more positive outcomes with their urinary incontinence, as well as, quality of life.

If you are unsure what urinary incontinence or pelvic organ prolapse is you can check out some previous blogs of ours (treating pelvic organ prolapse with pelvic floor therapy and preventing urinary incontinence). Before I introduce some of these exercises I want to make sure that you understand if you are experiencing pelvic pain or may be having urinary incontinence due to guarded or shortened pelvic floor muscles, you may have to begin with pelvic floor muscle lengthening/down-training first before strengthening.

Let’s get started with some of a few of my favorites…

1. Bridging (modified from shoulder bridge)

This is exercise incorporates your abdominals, pelvic floor muscles, and lower extremity muscles (i.e. glutes, hamstrings). The nice thing about this exercise for POP and urinary incontinence is that you don't have gravity working against the pelvic floor. This can help releave some pelvic pressure with POP and allow you to focus on a strong pelvic floor contraction.

2. Leg Circles (to assist with abdominal strength and pelvic stability)

This is a great exercise to work on your abdominals and pelvic stability. The goal is to keep your pelvis from rocking while you make circles with the leg. If you feel too much tension in your hamstring (back of the thigh) you can do the same exercise with a bent knee or make smaller circles. Do what feels best in your body.

3. Leg-Pull Front (similar to a plank with movement of your lower extremity. You can modify to just holding a plank as well)

As you can see you can do modifications if movement with the lower extremity is too challenging. Holding a plank is a great way to strengthen already. I love this one because you are working the whole body and you can really focus on pelvic alignment, making sure you stay in a neutral spine, and work on long holds with the pelvic floor muscles.

Just a few tips of when doing exercises with urinary incontinence and/or pelvic organ prolapse…

  • Especially with pelvic organ prolapse, when doing an exercise if you are feeling more downward pressure onto the pelvic floor, modify the exercise (i.e. maybe you are in more of a posterior pelvic tilt versus neutral spine or maybe the exercise might be too challenging for you to hold a pelvic floor contraction, so then just modify to minimize symptoms)

  • If you are experiencing urinary leakage with an exercise, it may just be too challenging so try an easier version (i.e. if you leak with the leg-pull front then just try holding a static plank and when you become stronger try again and see if you leak). Maybe you leak at count 3. So go up to 3 a few sessions and add another rep each time. See if that changes anything.

  • Exercises lying on your back will be less challenging than those in standing because your pelvic floor muscles aren’t working against gravity. Although the goal is to get stronger to do exercises in standing because the majority of activities we do in our daily lives are in standing.

Our Pelvic Health Physical Therapists are knowledgable about pilates and incorporates it into their treatment plans. For more info on what pilates is and how it can help your pelvic floor, check out a previous blog on pilates and the pelvic floor.

References:

Lausen A, Marsland L, Head S, Jackson J, Lausen B. Modified Pilates as an adjunct to standard physiotherapy care for urinary incontinence: a mixed methods pilot for a randomised controlled trial. . 2018;18(1):16

**This information is for educational purposes only and is not intended to replace the advice of your doctor.

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Testimonial by M.M.

My husband and I were married for 5 years and unable to have intercourse, but I never knew why. After numerous awful experiences at doctor’s offices (where many doctors told me I “just needed to relax”), a surgery that didn’t fix the problem, and a year of owning dilators that didn’t get me anywhere, someone finally referred me to Heather for Physical Therapy. I finally had answers and information from someone who knew exactly what I was dealing with!

Read more: Testimonial by M.M.

Testimonial by S.P., Age 26

I would like to start off by thanking Heather Jeffcoat for educating me and curing me of Vaginismus. I had been married for almost three years before I was referred to Heather. I never knew about Vaginismus until almost three years into my marriage. I knew something was wrong when I went on my honeymoon and came back a Virgin. I had always imagined how magical my first night would be but boy was I wrong.

Read more: Testimonial by S.P., Age 26

Testimonial by A.M.

Months after giving birth, it was difficult for me to go from a sitting or lying position up to a full standing position without feeling that I had to remain hunched over until a bit of time had passed to get fully upright. However, after taking Heather’s course, I learned exercises to get my body back to normal. She also showed me correct ways to lift and carry my son as well as put him in/take him out of the carseat and stroller. This class was really beneficial and Heather is a wonderful teacher who made me feel very comfortable.

-- A.M.

Testimonial by Fritzette H.

I went to Heather after the birth of my third child. It was lucky, really, that I was referred to her, because my doctor had referred me to a surgeon for a possible hysterectomy or pelvic wall rebuild. Thankfully, I went to Heather before undergoing either surgery, she was able to fix the problem. She has studied extensively in women's health--even written a book about it--and was able to diagnose my problem, suggest a course of treatment (6 weeks), and then follow through with said treatment. By the end, as she said, I was as good as gold. Boy, was it worth it! Though uncomfortable to talk about, much less write about, it is worth getting the word out there. If you have painful intercourse, especially after birth or other trauma, the treatment may be as simple as Physical Therapy (with Heather, of course). I highly recommend her.

-- Fritzette H., 3/24/16 via Yelp!

Testimonial by Y.L. (mom of 2)

After having my second baby via C-section I searched for months to try to find help for my lower back pain and separated abdominal muscles. I finally came across Heather Jeffcoat via a mommy blog. I reached out to her via email and set my first appointment. My first appointment went amazing … she listened to what my symptoms, check my separation and explained to me in detail what the next steps would be. Not only did my abdominal separation go from 3 to about 1 -1/2 but my back has pain has significantly reduced. I’m personally recommending all my mommy friends to Heather!

Y.L. (mom of 2)

Testimonial by T.H.

I started seeing Heather in October 2014. For more than two years, I had been suffering from painful urinary tract infection type symptoms after my bartholins gland surgery which included constant burning and urinary frequency sensation that led to more and more painful intercourse. I had made multiple visits to internist, obgyn and urologist's offices, went through a range of treatment with UTI and bladder frequency medication that included antibiotics, vesicare, estrogen cream, but nothing worked.

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