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Sex Without Pain: A Self-Treatment Guide To The Sex Life You Deserve was written by Heather Jeffcoat, DPT, a physical therapist with countless successes in treating pain of this type. Women with vaginismus, overactive pelvic floor, painful intercourse, vulvodynia, vulvar vestibulitis, vestibulodynia, dyspareunia, interstitial cystitis have all benefited from her unique program. Heather uses her orthopaedic background to approach treatment of these muscles like they are....muscles! She utilizes a self-treatment tool called a dilator to provide massage and other muscle relaxation and stretching techniques in a gentle fashion to return a women's muscles back to a resting, rather than guarded, state.

Sex Without Pain: A Self-Treatment Guide To The Sex Life You Deserve

What Others are Saying About "Sex Without Pain ":

I have seen Heather's treatment program work time and time again with my patients. Her unique approach to treating women with painful intercourse through a combination of hands on skills, patient education and the thorough home program outlined in this book has surpassed the results of her peers. Her techniques and expertise have been an invaluable resource to my practice."

- Kerri Parks, MD (Associate Professor Ob/Gyn USC Keck School of Medicine)


I will use it frequently for clients who cannot afford pelvic floor PT or for those who cannot find pelvic floor PT any where near them! I have so needed this resource. The clarity of each step and the drawings are so helpful - I don't know of any other resource that will be as effective for self-help."

- Joyce Penner, RN, MN (Sexual Therapist, Educator and Co-author of The Gift of Sex, Restoring the Pleasure and numerous other publications)


Sex Without Pain is an essential book for any woman suffering with pelvic or sexual pain. Heather's approach is simple and clear. She empowers the woman and her partner with the resources needed to lead a healthy and pain free sex life. A great read for patients and professionals alike."

- Jennifer Briggs, DPT (Women's Health Physical Therapist, Pennsylvania)


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Pelvic Floor Dysfunction | Image Courtesy of Le Minh Phuong via Unsplash
Pelvic Floor Dysfunction | Image Courtesy of Le Minh Phuong via Unsplash

First some facts about pelvic floor dysfunction:

  • Nearly one in two women experience painful sex.
  • One in three women suffers from urinary incontinence.
  • 40% of all women and 50% of childbearing women have pelvic organ prolapse.

Because I’m a fan of scientific data, this isn’t the first time you’ve seen the truth by the numbers in this space.

Rarely, though, do I get to talk about a ‘study of many studies’ like the one published in Sexual Medicine Reviews.

Here’s an unsurprising conclusion:

Millions of women worldwide are impacted by pelvic floor dysfunction.”

The medical community has a collective term for all the conditions I mentioned and many more – Pelvic Floor Dysfunction (PFD). The researchers on this team weren’t interested in breaking new ground (at least, not with this article). Their focus was on the very thing that keeps me motivated professionally and personally – the effect of pelvic floor dysfunction in ALL its forms on a woman’s sex life, and the medical interventions most likely to help.

Keep reading for my take on some of their key takeaways.

PFD has been shown to have a negative impact on women’s social, physical, sexual, and psychological well-being.” 

World Health Organization studies estimate sexual dysfunction affects 30-50% of women at some point in life. These researchers found the number rises to 50-83% in women with pelvic floor disease. However, they noted, “personal shame and social taboos still prevent open discussion on the topic”. In my years of practice, I’ve seen (and successfully treated) many different types of PFD; yet the one thing almost all my patients have in common is the belief that they’re alone in their struggle and fundamentally flawed.

If you suffer from any form of pelvic floor dysfunction, you aren’t broken; our culture is. Your problem isn’t in your head, it’s in your muscles (or your fascia, or the nerves, or ligaments – either way, I GOT YOU!). And the point of naming it isn’t to label you; it’s to improve your social, physical, sexual, and psychological quality of life.

Despite the high incidence of pelvic floor dysfunction… it is clear that more research is required; training of doctors in this field is also a priority.” 

Among the data were national surveys in the United States and the United Kingdom that revealed only 22% of gynecologists regularly screen women for sexual dysfunction and 23% never do. Their biggest barriers? Lack of time and training. I’ve met (and educated) many of these doctors, and I’ve treated thousands of their patients. If your gynecologist doesn’t ask you about your sex life, tell them about it – especially if you have concerns or problems. If they can’t provide solid, medically-based follow-up, and especially if they tell you it’s all in your head, it’s time to find a new doctor.

Better yet, call a pelvic health physical therapist that specializes in female sexual dysfunction.

Why?

Pelvic floor muscular training has been shown to improve sexual desire, performance, and the ability to achieve orgasm… reduce incontinence and increase sexual satisfaction.” 

The research team found solid clinical evidence of all those benefits and more, even though pelvic floor physical therapy research is still limited compared to the data on surgery and other approaches to treating pelvic floor dysfunction. (They also concluded that most of the surgical studies focused on anatomical fixes more than increased sexual function.)

One more time – pelvic floor muscles are muscles. There’s no better expert than a physical therapist, and no physical therapist would recommend surgery as a first response to muscle issues anywhere else in the body. I’ve used pelvic floor physical therapy to treat countless cases of pelvic floor dysfunction without surgery; I’ve even used it to help correct problems caused by unnecessary surgery. And my focus is always on sexual function and well-being since that’s why most of my patients seek me out in the first place.

Treating your pelvic floor dysfunction

If you’ve been diagnosed with any type of pelvic floor dysfunction – or if you struggle with painful sex, pelvic pain, or incontinence – Femina PT can help.  We’ve been at the forefront of women’s and pelvic health physical therapy for years, and we’re always on top of the latest research in the field. Most importantly, we’re committed to helping you have the fulfilling, pain-free sex life – and total life – you deserve.

 

References

Verbeek M., Hayward L. 2019. Pelvic Floor Dysfunction And Its Effect On Quality Of Sexual Life. Sexual Medicine Reviews 7:4  559-64

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Testimonial by Mary L.

I started seeing Heather to treat my Interstitial Cystitis in November 2016. At this time, I was extremely miserable, in constant pain, and felt as though no one was listening or understood what was going on with my body. I have just finished my last appointment and I can honestly say that my life has completely changed for the better because of Heather and her team of PTs! I live almost completely pain free, and when I do have flare ups, I am able to treat them at home on my own. I am so grateful that this office was recommended to me a honestly cannot recommend them enough!

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While pregnant with my twins, Heather took care with keeping me on my feet and pain free. She saved my back, my sanity and the holidays! I would recommend her to every “mom” looking to stay on her feet during pregnancy and post-partum.

-- T.C.

Testimonial by Ann V.

I wish i could give this place 10 stars!! 
I have been suffering from vaginismus for 5 years and never found the cure to it. I had seen an ob/gyn and he diagnosed me with vaginismus and told me i needed a surgery to cure my condition, which i refused to do. He also referred me to a PT that he works with, i had given them multiple calls and they never responded back to me, so i started searching yelp for another PT. I am SO HAPPY I found Heather's office! I was working with Laureen, and with her guidance and techniques i was able to be cured from vaginismus in only 2 1/2 short months!!! I couldn't believe how quickly their program worked for me! I am forever grateful and thankful from Heather, and Laureen! They are the absolute best at what they do!

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Testimonial by Amanda W.

Heather's unique physical therapy program literally changed my life! After years of struggling with vaginismus, a condition that made it impossible for me to have intercourse and very difficult to use tampons without pain, a gynecologist referred me to Heather. I was nervous for my first appointment, but Heather's professional and friendly demeanor put me at ease. She did a great job explaining each technique she was using to help my muscles relax. Heather uses a combination of internal and external stretches and exercises to relax the pelvic floor and build muscle strength. Her specially developed home program helped me quickly recover from an issue that seemed insurmountable before meeting Heather. She was optimistic about my progress and incredibly encouraging. Less than 6 months after my first session, I was able to have pain-free sex for the first time in my life! If you are suffering from vaginismus or any other pelvic floor issues, I highly recommend making an appointment with Heather and reading her book!

-- Amanda W., 2/15/16 via Yelp!

Testimonial by Fritzette H.

I went to Heather after the birth of my third child. It was lucky, really, that I was referred to her, because my doctor had referred me to a surgeon for a possible hysterectomy or pelvic wall rebuild. Thankfully, I went to Heather before undergoing either surgery, she was able to fix the problem. She has studied extensively in women's health--even written a book about it--and was able to diagnose my problem, suggest a course of treatment (6 weeks), and then follow through with said treatment. By the end, as she said, I was as good as gold. Boy, was it worth it! Though uncomfortable to talk about, much less write about, it is worth getting the word out there. If you have painful intercourse, especially after birth or other trauma, the treatment may be as simple as Physical Therapy (with Heather, of course). I highly recommend her.

-- Fritzette H., 3/24/16 via Yelp!

Testimonial by A.M.

Months after giving birth, it was difficult for me to go from a sitting or lying position up to a full standing position without feeling that I had to remain hunched over until a bit of time had passed to get fully upright. However, after taking Heather’s course, I learned exercises to get my body back to normal. She also showed me correct ways to lift and carry my son as well as put him in/take him out of the carseat and stroller. This class was really beneficial and Heather is a wonderful teacher who made me feel very comfortable.

-- A.M.

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