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Sex Without Pain: A Self-Treatment Guide To The Sex Life You Deserve was written by Heather Jeffcoat, DPT, a physical therapist with countless successes in treating pain of this type. Women with vaginismus, overactive pelvic floor, painful intercourse, vulvodynia, vulvar vestibulitis, vestibulodynia, dyspareunia, interstitial cystitis have all benefited from her unique program. Heather uses her orthopaedic background to approach treatment of these muscles like they are....muscles! She utilizes a self-treatment tool called a dilator to provide massage and other muscle relaxation and stretching techniques in a gentle fashion to return a women's muscles back to a resting, rather than guarded, state.

Sex Without Pain: A Self-Treatment Guide To The Sex Life You Deserve

What Others are Saying About "Sex Without Pain ":

I have seen Heather's treatment program work time and time again with my patients. Her unique approach to treating women with painful intercourse through a combination of hands on skills, patient education and the thorough home program outlined in this book has surpassed the results of her peers. Her techniques and expertise have been an invaluable resource to my practice."

- Kerri Parks, MD (Associate Professor Ob/Gyn USC Keck School of Medicine)


I will use it frequently for clients who cannot afford pelvic floor PT or for those who cannot find pelvic floor PT any where near them! I have so needed this resource. The clarity of each step and the drawings are so helpful - I don't know of any other resource that will be as effective for self-help."

- Joyce Penner, RN, MN (Sexual Therapist, Educator and Co-author of The Gift of Sex, Restoring the Pleasure and numerous other publications)


Sex Without Pain is an essential book for any woman suffering with pelvic or sexual pain. Heather's approach is simple and clear. She empowers the woman and her partner with the resources needed to lead a healthy and pain free sex life. A great read for patients and professionals alike."

- Jennifer Briggs, DPT (Women's Health Physical Therapist, Pennsylvania)


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What did you discuss with your healthcare provider at your last OB-Gyn appointment?

Hard truth – there’s a good chance your answer depends on your skin color.

The disturbing statistics about increased COVID risks for people of color shed much needed light on systemic injustice in our healthcare system; but you may not realize the problem extends to almost every facet of women’s health, from yearly check-ups to frightening mortality rates in pregnancy and childbirth. A recent survey of nearly 1,700 white and black, non-Hispanic women aged 18-49 pulls back the exam room curtain, indicating a double standard that often leaves women of color underserved and medically vulnerable to several risks.

Black survey participants were significantly more likely than their white counterparts to have had an office visit within the previous year, and more of them discussed their sexual health and behaviors during the appointment. But although all women have the same baseline female health concerns, survey responses show those conversations took markedly different turns.

Black women were more likely than white women to be asked about sexual behaviors (especially number of partners) vs. health concerns, more likely to be offered STD tests, and more likely to be recommended and offered condoms than a prescription for more reliable forms of birth control. A high number of black respondents reported specific instances of racial bias in their conversations with their provider, including brushing off pain and other medical concerns, shaming, and reinforcement of negative racial stereotypes.

It’s easy to understand how an interaction like that could negatively influence any woman’s decision to disclose important information during future visits, or even discourage her from returning at all. But the dangers aren’t just anecdotal. Consider these examples from other recent studies:

*Both missed diagnoses and missed wellness or prenatal visits regularly contribute to severe medical crises, from reproductive cancers to pregnancy related deaths; and several studies confirm black women are 2-6 times more likely than white women to die from complications of pregnancy.

*Lack of in-office education about and access to the most reliable birth control methods contributes to the higher number of unplanned pregnancies among black women.

*Doctors ignore or misdiagnose painful sex concerns for all women, making the topic difficult for the majority of them to discuss in the office; but 17% of women of color experience longer duration of pain during sex, which makes that conversation all the more crucial.

Although additional factors (many of which involve other systemic injustices) complicate these issues, researchers agree it is impossible to ignore the correlation between negative interactions with providers and serious health risks for women of color.

Those conversations need to change; and as the founding owner of Femina PT, it’s my pledge to help make that happen.

I chose to specialize in women’s health physical therapy because I wanted to help treat women’s bodies; but I learned quickly that education and advocacy were crucial to that mission. I’ve seen firsthand how shame and stigma from providers and the public contributes to real medical consequences for my patients. I’ve dedicated my career to speaking out against medical injustice; and I’ve spent more than a decade making sure my own practice measures up to those ideals.

At Femina PT, every woman will receive the highest standard of care – personalized to their history and concerns, guided by the most current and reputable scientific research in our field, and delivered with compassion and respect for their stories. That commitment goes beyond patient interactions to my hiring practices, my public education forums, and my discussions with fellow medical professionals.

If Black Lives Matter – and they do – there is no better arena than women’s healthcare to shatter the status quo. It is our privilege to serve women of color with women’s health physical therapy, or with referrals to other specialists in our network of trusted providers.

Citations

Townes A., Rosenberg M., Guerra-Reyes L., et al 2020. Inequitable Experiences Between Black and White Women Discussing Sexual Health With Healthcare Providers: Findings From A U.S. Probability Sample. The Journal Of Sexual Medicine online, April 30, 2020 1-9.

Townes A., Herbenick D., Carter A., 2019. Painful Sex Among White And Black Women In The United States: Results From A Nationally Representative Survey. The Journal Of Sexual Medicine 16:S1-S49 26

Flanders-Stephans M. Alarming Racial Differences in Maternal Mortality. 2000 The Journal Of Perinatal Education. 09:02 50-51.

“Racial And Ethnic Disparities Continue in Pregnancy-Related Deaths”. Centers for Disease Control and Prevention, 5 Sept 2019.

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Testimonial by A.B.

Before I was referred to Heather Jeffcoat I was living in a nightmare. I had been married to my husband for three years and I was suffering from Vaginismus. That all changed when I visited my OBGYN and she said she knew of someone with a great success rate. To be honest I was hesitant at first because my first doctor had already told me that all I needed to do was order dilators from the internet and I should overcome my problem. She was wrong because I had followed the book on how to use the dilators with absolutely no advancements in my condition. However, that all changed when I went in for my first visit and Heather took the time to explain my condition and how we were going to work together to overcome it.

I remember leaving her office with a glimmer of hope that I could live a normal life. As my sessions continued I began to see immediate results. With only four sessions and a strict dedication to my home programs I was cured of Vaginismus. In the beginning of this process I was made aware that my health insurance company might not cover the costs, which was disappointing but today I can say one hundred percent that it was the best money I ever spent. Now thanks to Heather I am finally enjoying my life to the fullest with my husband. Thank you Heather, I can’t begin to tell you how much I appreciate all that you have done for me. I will never forget it. Those who are suffering from these types of conditions don’t be afraid because she makes you feel so comfortable and the end result is worth it. Good luck to you all and I hope you experience the success I have.
-- A.B.

Testimonial by M.M.

A personal journey and testimonial from one of my patients:

My husband and I were married for 5 years before we were able to have intercourse due to my vaginismus. There was nothing traumatic in my past but for some reason, even though I wanted sex, I mentally avoided "that area" of my body and didn't even admit to myself that there was a problem for a long time, even though I was never able to put tampons in. Once I finally opened my eyes up to the fact that I had a problem, I had a surgery that was supposed to fix the issue.

Read more: Testimonial by M.M.

Testimonial by Y.L. (mom of 2)

After having my second baby via C-section I searched for months to try to find help for my lower back pain and separated abdominal muscles. I finally came across Heather Jeffcoat via a mommy blog. I reached out to her via email and set my first appointment. My first appointment went amazing … she listened to what my symptoms, check my separation and explained to me in detail what the next steps would be. Not only did my abdominal separation go from 3 to about 1 -1/2 but my back has pain has significantly reduced. I’m personally recommending all my mommy friends to Heather!

Y.L. (mom of 2)

Testimonial by J.B.

My husband and I were having problems with painful intercourse. My therapist recommended that I go and get a pelvic floor evaluation from a physical therapist. Having never been treated by a physical therapist, I wondered how this really was going to help me. My husband who is a physician was very supportive and agreed that a PT evaluation would be a great idea. So i made the appointment and was blown away by what I learned. I had no idea that pelvic floor muscles could get tight and have trigger points just like any other muscle in the body. I'm a massage therapist and very familiar with tight muscles, and this new thought really amazed me. Heather's program to help relax and strengthen these muscles made such a difference. I can say that I am 100% pain free during intercourse now. Yippee! Going to the PT appointments and doing the at-home exercises was definitely a discipline, but it's 100% worth it! The rewards are amazing.

-- J.B.

Testimonial by J.H.

My last appointment with Heather was over 6 years ago but I still think of her every day. I don’t take for granted that I can easily get out of bed, care for my two active and busy young boys, run, play tennis, clean my house, or sit at a desk for several hours at a time. None of these tasks were easy for me before meeting Heather. Eight years ago my car was struck from behind by a tractor trailer that was estimated to have been speeding. I spent 3 years working with different PTs and Drs trying to heal and move on with my life. When I became pregnant and the hormone relaxin that “relaxes” all the joints of the body and the additional weight gain erased all my progress and I was suddenly in a lot of pain again. My OB sent me to Heather for one last try.

Read more: Testimonial by J.H.

Testimonial by S.H., age 24

I just wanted to thank you for everything you've done for me for the past 19 months. I literally could not have reached my goals without you and your practice. You gave me the courage to keep moving forth with my treatment no matter how afraid and anxious I was. You were always there to answer questions and made this whole process so much easier than I expected it to be.

It's because of you that my marriage is on the right track, that I can get pregnant and that this part of my life is finally over. I really feel that Fusion Wellness is a team of people you can call family and are there to root for you and cheer you on until you reach your goals. There is nothing better than knowing I accomplished this with you guys by my side and as calmly and patiently as I needed. Thank you from the bottom of my heart for always being there and helping me reach my goals.

S.H., age 24

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