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Sex Without Pain: A Self-Treatment Guide To The Sex Life You Deserve was written by Heather Jeffcoat, DPT, a physical therapist with countless successes in treating pain of this type. Women with vaginismus, overactive pelvic floor, painful intercourse, vulvodynia, vulvar vestibulitis, vestibulodynia, dyspareunia, interstitial cystitis have all benefited from her unique program. Heather uses her orthopaedic background to approach treatment of these muscles like they are....muscles! She utilizes a self-treatment tool called a dilator to provide massage and other muscle relaxation and stretching techniques in a gentle fashion to return a women's muscles back to a resting, rather than guarded, state.

Sex Without Pain: A Self-Treatment Guide To The Sex Life You Deserve

What Others are Saying About "Sex Without Pain ":

I have seen Heather's treatment program work time and time again with my patients. Her unique approach to treating women with painful intercourse through a combination of hands on skills, patient education and the thorough home program outlined in this book has surpassed the results of her peers. Her techniques and expertise have been an invaluable resource to my practice."

- Kerri Parks, MD (Associate Professor Ob/Gyn USC Keck School of Medicine)


I will use it frequently for clients who cannot afford pelvic floor PT or for those who cannot find pelvic floor PT any where near them! I have so needed this resource. The clarity of each step and the drawings are so helpful - I don't know of any other resource that will be as effective for self-help."

- Joyce Penner, RN, MN (Sexual Therapist, Educator and Co-author of The Gift of Sex, Restoring the Pleasure and numerous other publications)


Sex Without Pain is an essential book for any woman suffering with pelvic or sexual pain. Heather's approach is simple and clear. She empowers the woman and her partner with the resources needed to lead a healthy and pain free sex life. A great read for patients and professionals alike."

- Jennifer Briggs, DPT (Women's Health Physical Therapist, Pennsylvania)


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sex with a hip impingement

When it Comes to Sex With a Hip Impingement, Position Really Does Matter

It's no surprise that if you recently had hip surgery - or have an ongoing hip issue - that your sex life could suffer. Read on for some recommendations.

What is Femoroacetabular Impingement (FAI) Syndrome?

Femoroacetabular impingement (FAI) syndrome is a disorder of the hip that typically affects young adults. It is the result of an abnormal contact between the greater trochanter of the femur (thigh bone) and the acetabulum (the socket).

FAI is one of the most common reasons why people undergo arthroscopic surgery on their hips, but many people are treated via conservative pathways (PT, rehabilitative exercise, joint injections). The symptoms of FAI syndrome include motion- or position-related hip and/or groin pain. Pain may also be felt in the back, buttock or thigh. In addition to pain, patients may also describe clicking, catching, locking, stiffness, restricted range of motion or giving way. (Griffin et al., 2016).

Hip Issues Affect Your Sex Life

It makes logical sense that having FAI and other ongoing hip issues could put a damper on your sex life. Sex can require a lot of interesting positions and hip motions, which are not always egonomic. Researchers Lee et al. (2015) confirmed this hypothesis when they found that most patients with femoral acetabular impingement syndrome (FAI) reported sex with a hip impingement to be difficult due to their discomfort.

A new study by Morehouse et al. (2020) used state of the art imaging techniques to see the kind of stress 15 different sex positions put on your hip joint. FYI the definition of sex for this study was penetrative sex between a heterosexual couple… However I think we can extrapolate findings for those engaging in non-heteronormative play!

The aim of the study was to identify positions for sex with a hip impingement that could be recommended to patients who had recently undergone hip arthroscopy, or who had ongoing hip impingement issues or were at risk for developing a hip impingement issue.

12 common sexual positions were reviewed via MRI to see the kind of hip motion that is required of both participants, and the study identified positions that are either safer or less safe for those who have had recent hip surgery or ongoing impingement.

You can see these positions in this diagram:

sex with a hip impingement positions

Image from Morehouse, H., Sochacki, K. R., Nho, S. J., & Harris, J. D. (2020). Gender-Specific Sexual Activity After Hip Arthroscopy for Femoroacetabular Impingement Syndrome: Position Matters. The Journal of Sexual Medicine. doi:10.1016/j.jsxm.2019.12.026

Safe Movement Paramaters

Hips get more unstable with more than 0 degrees of hip extension (think leg going out behind you), greater than 30 degrees of external rotation (think knees pointing “out” or duck feet), or greater than 30 degrees of abduction (think “spread eagle”). Hips face a larger risk of impingement if the hips go past 90 degrees of flexion (knee to chest), more than 10 degrees of internal rotation (going “pigeon toed”), and more than 10 degrees of adduction (legs crossing midline). Perhaps a little confusing for those of you who have not taken anatomy classes, but bear with me!

Using these recommendations listed above, if the “blue character” is the person with hip issues, the safest positions are 3, 5 (when laying on the problem side), 9, and 12.

If the “pink character” is the person with hip issues, positions 1, 2 (laying slightly on left or slightly on right side), and 9 are safest.

You’ll notice that the safe positons for sex with a hip impingement stay in line with the safe movement recommendations listed above: legs don’t tend to go back behind you, knees and legs stay neutral (no turning in or out), and hips don’t go into too much flexion (knee to chest), avoid too much abduction (spread eagle), and also avoid any crossing of the legs past midline.

Recommendations for Those Who Have Had Recent Hip Surgery

Current evidence shows 100% capsular healing at 24 weeks post-op, so if you’ve had hip surgery recently, you should be safe to have sex after 6 months. Keep in mind this is a conservative recommendation, because some wonder-kids are pain free 48 hours after operation. So, if you feel comfortable talking with your doctor about this, ask them for their opinion.

If you are confused by all of the anatomical terms of this blog post and in the journal articles, come see one of our therapists and we can give you some personalized recommendations, based on our in depth evaluations and treatment sessions. Give us a call or make an appointment today!

References

Griffin DR, Dickenson EJ, O’donnell J, et al. The Warwick Agreement on femoroacetabular impingement syndrome (FAI syndrome): an international consensus statement. Br J Sports Med 2016;50:1169-1176.

Morehouse, H., Sochacki, K. R., Nho, S. J., & Harris, J. D. (2020). Gender-Specific Sexual Activity After Hip Arthroscopy for Femoroacetabular Impingement Syndrome: Position Matters. The Journal of Sexual Medicine. doi:10.1016/j.jsxm.2019.12.026

Lee S, Frank RM, Harris J, et al. Evaluation of Sexual Function Before and After Hip Arthroscopic Surgery for Symptomatic Femoroacetabular Impingement. Am J Sports Med 2015; 43:1850-1856.

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Testimonial by M.N., age 28

A personal journey and testimonial from one of my patients:

I was diagnosed with vaginismus 4 years ago. I never heard of such medical condition until after I got married. At first my husband and I didn't know what to do, we didn't know what the issues were or how to overcome it. Being born and raised in Armenia and being Christian I wasn't that open about talking to sex with others and so it wasn't easy to seek help. But eventually I went to an Ob-Gyn and luckily she knew about the medical condition (not many doctors know). She referred me to a physical therapist and I couldn't believe it and thought it's something I can handle myself. I ordered a kit from vaginismus.com and started practicing with dilators. There was some small progress but wasn't much helpful.

Read more: Testimonial by M.N., age 28

Testimonial by Alexandra B.

Heather is without exaggerating AMAZING! After years of trouble with a certain part of my body, in no time, she made everything change back to equilibrium and to what would be considered normal. She explains everything in detail and therefore gives you a better understanding of why things are the way they are, and how you can work towards turning things around. I would highly recommend Heather for any type of Physical Therapy. She has created her own "Method/Therapy" through years of studying (with some of the greatest practitioners), practice and breaking down the issues of her past patients, enabling her to fine tune her own system. I'm so thankful to have found her, and I'm especially grateful for the quick recovery I've achieved, after years of distress. If you cannot afford her, I recommend you purchase her book. Although it may not be Heather in person, it can still help you to get on the right path to recovery!

-- Alexandra B., 5/20/2015 via Yelp!

Testimonial by S.S., age 54

Heather is the best! I saw her today for terrible hip/groin pain. I was so impressed with the safety measures in place and felt completely safe . Thanks for the healing hands.

S.S., age 54

Testimonial by Julie T.

Femina PT (née Fusion Wellness & Physical Therapy) has honestly changed my life. Before receiving treatment at Femina, I was going doctor to doctor to try and find the answer to my pelvic pain. It has taken me YEARS to find someone that can help fix this. It wasn't until my gynecologist recommended your clinic that I finally felt relief. My pelvic pain is almost gone, and granted I still have a lot more to work on with Laureen (my PT), my original problem is nearly cured. I am so grateful to her.

What is even better is she gave me practical exercises to do at home that were not tedious and provided instant (and lasting) relief. Although I mainly work with Laureen, my interaction with the owner (Heather) has been great. She is very generous, kind, and committed to her business.

It hurts to know there are women out there suffering who will never know or have the opportunity to work with women like Laureen and Heather because this issue is hardly talked about and this field is so rare. I hope more doctors and physical therapists see the value in this work and can relieve more woman of their pain.

-- Julie T., 12/4/16 via Yelp!

Testimonial by R.M., Age 40

I can’t speak highly enough of the theapists at Femina Physical Therapy and how much they have helped me grow, discover, and love my body. I had had painful sex for my entire life, and didn’t know that there was anything that could be done about it. It was at the point where my husband and I were not having sex for MONTHs, because it was just too frustrating, and I hated feeling like I was the ONLY woman out there who had this problem, especially at my age. I finally brought it up to my doctor because I was turning 40 and my husband and I were barely having enough sex to conceive. And she brought up pelvic floor, PT. I didn’t even know this was a “thing”.

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Testimonial by Jamie M.

I have been going to see Heather for a while now, and I can't tell you enough how much she has improved my quality of life. Heather specializes in issues like pelvic floor, but I see her for other orthopedic issues.

I have a lot of chronic joint pain and dysfunction issues (back, hips, neck) that require that have ongoing physical therapy maintenance. The effects of my problem joints/areas overlap and interconnect with each other in complex ways, so helping me requires really having a complete understanding of the entire skeletal and muscular system. Pain does not always appear where the problem actually is, the human body is a twisty, many-layered puzzle. I have an exercise program I do at home and I am very functional, but there are just something things I need a PT to help me out with.

Read more: Testimonial by Jamie M.

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