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Sex Without Pain: A Self-Treatment Guide To The Sex Life You Deserve was written by Heather Jeffcoat, DPT, a physical therapist with countless successes in treating pain of this type. Women with vaginismus, overactive pelvic floor, painful intercourse, vulvodynia, vulvar vestibulitis, vestibulodynia, dyspareunia, interstitial cystitis have all benefited from her unique program. Heather uses her orthopaedic background to approach treatment of these muscles like they are....muscles! She utilizes a self-treatment tool called a dilator to provide massage and other muscle relaxation and stretching techniques in a gentle fashion to return a women's muscles back to a resting, rather than guarded, state.

Sex Without Pain: A Self-Treatment Guide To The Sex Life You Deserve

What Others are Saying About "Sex Without Pain ":

I have seen Heather's treatment program work time and time again with my patients. Her unique approach to treating women with painful intercourse through a combination of hands on skills, patient education and the thorough home program outlined in this book has surpassed the results of her peers. Her techniques and expertise have been an invaluable resource to my practice."

- Kerri Parks, MD (Associate Professor Ob/Gyn USC Keck School of Medicine)


I will use it frequently for clients who cannot afford pelvic floor PT or for those who cannot find pelvic floor PT any where near them! I have so needed this resource. The clarity of each step and the drawings are so helpful - I don't know of any other resource that will be as effective for self-help."

- Joyce Penner, RN, MN (Sexual Therapist, Educator and Co-author of The Gift of Sex, Restoring the Pleasure and numerous other publications)


Sex Without Pain is an essential book for any woman suffering with pelvic or sexual pain. Heather's approach is simple and clear. She empowers the woman and her partner with the resources needed to lead a healthy and pain free sex life. A great read for patients and professionals alike."

- Jennifer Briggs, DPT (Women's Health Physical Therapist, Pennsylvania)


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Cycling has become an increasingly popular mode of exercise and transportation, and before COVID-19 cycling classes were very popular.

Now with many cities under shelter in place ordinances, folks are dusting off their bicycles and riding the streets for exercise.

There are many health benefits to cycling, including improved cardiovascular health, better weight control, and decreased risk of breast cancer in women (Greenberg, 2019).

Despite all these amazing health benefits (I, myself am an avid bicyclist), you can ask almost anyone who has ridden a bike- the seats can get kind of uncomfortable after prolonged periods of time. And for some, issues worse than discomfort can arise: genital numbness, genital pain, nerve conduction issues, and sexual dysfunction. Through the years there has been some research that has linked bicycle riding, genital pain and genital numbness, and sexual dysfunction in both sexes. In fact, we’ve explored how rider/seat positioning on your bicycle can exacerbate nerve and orthopedic issues in past blogs.

Cycling and Sexual Dysfunction

A recent study by Greenberg et al. (2019) further explores these associations. The study found that female cyclists who experienced frequent genital numbness and early onset of genital pain while cycling (within the first hour of riding) were more likely to report sexual dysfunction, including decreased arousal and satisfaction with orgasm.

Greenberg’s study found that female bicyclists who reported genital numbness and/or genital pain on half of their rides were more likely to have female sexual dysfunction (FSD), especially if the numbness/pain was around the clitoris. Cyclists experiencing genital pain within the first hour of their ride were more likely to have FSD. Interestingly, how often the cyclists rode (frequency) had no correlation with FSD and neither did length of time of their rides (duration). The frequency of numbness was correlated with decreased arousal, orgasm, and satisfaction during intercourse, whereas the frequency of pain significantly reduced arousal, orgasm, and genital lubrication.

In another study by Guess et al. (2006), more than 60% of the bicyclists who participated in the study reported genital pain, tingling, or numbness in the month prior, which was significantly higher in the bicyclists compared to the controls, 5% of which had genital pain, tingling and numbness. In Guess’ study, bicyclists rode on average 1-4 days a week, on rides that ranged between 4-100 miles each. Guess’ study also found that cyclists had decreased sensation at the perineum, posterior vagina, and the labia, bilaterally.

So What’s The Connection?

For sexual response to function, nerve fibers originating from the sacral area have to be recruited and stimulated, along those same lines, the blood supply to the genital must also be responsive to flood the area with blood to reach genital arousal. Any compression or obstruction along these nerve and blood vessel tracts could lead to some genital pain, numbness, tingling, as well as FSD.

This brings us back to that uncomfortable bike seat I mentioned earlier- when you’re seated on a bicycle, nerves and arteries that lead to the genitals (the pudendal nerve and it's branches (S2-4) and artery for you anatomically focus folks) are directly compressed. That means less nerve conduction and less blood flow, which can eventually lead to decreased sensation, numbness, pain, tingling, and general dysfunction. That is to say- your bike seat may be compressing your nerves and compromising blood flow to your genitals. This is true for both women and men, by the way, as it is also well documented that men who ride bikes a lot can have genital pain, numbness, and erectile dysfunction.

What You Can Do: Find the Right Seat

Bike companies have been trying to find more ergonomic designs for bike saddles for years, and the designs differ for different anatomy. This means that there is no perfect bike seat for everyone- whether you have a penis, wide or narrow hips, etc.- there are different shapes of bikes seats that will increase/decrease pressure on those precious nerves and arteries.

Female anatomies or those with wider hips should go with a wider saddle. Research has shown that both narrow saddles and saddles with central cutouts (that’s the long tube shape cutout up the middle) aggravated saddle pressure profiles experienced in competitive female cyclists (Baran, 2014).

Noseless seats may provide some relief for some, but not all. Noseless seats are basically a little stubbier than the traditional bike seat, with the front narrow “nose” cut off. There have some limited studies about noseless seats for both male and female cyclists, suggesting that there is less compression when the seat does not go all the way forward.

What you can do: Improve your riding position

Aside from getting a more comfortable bike seat, your riding position can either increase or decrease the pressure on your genital area. See this past Femina PT blog for some bike fitting tips.

Raise those handlebars to avoid a forward leaning/aerodynamic position.

Studies have found that a leaned forward/aero position (think about those Tour de France riders bombing down a hill) places more pressure on your internal pudendal arteries i.e. the arteries that provide blood to your genital areas. Raising the handlebars so they are higher than the bike seat will help keep you out of that position for prolonged periods of time (Baran, 2014).

What You Can Do: Other Factors

Mountain biking vs Road biking

Some studies suggest that mountain biking may cause harder bumps and vibrations on the perineal area, increasing risk for damage of the nerves in that area (Baran, 2014).

Body weight

Body weight of the bike rider will increase pressure on the bike seat, another consideration (Baran, 2014).

Take Breaks!

As with any activity, if you are feeling discomfort- take a break! If you are starting to feel some numbness or pain in the genital area while biking, get off your bike to stretch and take a break.

Contact a Professional for a Bike Fitting

Certain physical therapists, bike fitness instructors and others have special training in regards to fitting your bicycle. Heather Jeffcoat, DPT and owner of Femina PT clinic can fit you on your bicycle and give you special tips to make sure you are not exacerbating issues with your riding habits. If you are having issues with your bike, contact a professional today.

 

References

Gaither TW, Awad MA, Murphy GP, et al. Cycling and female sexual and urinary function: results from a large, multinational, cross-sectional study. J Sex Med 2018;15:510-518.

Greenberg, D. R., Khandwala, Y. S., Breyer, B. N., Minkow, R., & Eisenberg, M. L. (2019). Genital Pain and Numbness and Female Sexual Dysfunction in Adult Bicyclists. The Journal of Sexual Medicine. doi:10.1016/j.jsxm.2019.06.017

Guess, M. K., Connell, K., Schrader, S., Reutman, S., Wang, A., LaCombe, J., … Mikhail, M. (2006). ORIGINAL RESEARCH—WOMEN’S SEXUAL HEALTH: Genital Sensation and Sexual Function in Women Bicyclists and Runners: Are Your Feet Safer than Your Seat? The Journal of Sexual Medicine, 3(6), 1018–1027. doi:10.1111/j.1743-6109.2006.00317.x

Hermans TJN, Wijn RPWF, Winkens B, et al. Urogenital and sexual complaints in female club cyclists-a cross-sectional study. J Sex Med 2016;13:40-45.

Baran, C., Mitchell, G. C., & Hellstrom, W. J. G. (2014). Cycling‐Related Sexual Dysfunction in Men and Women: A Review. Sexual Medicine Reviews, 2(3-4), 93–101. doi:10.1002/smrj.32

Buller JC. Female cyclists and perineal symptoms: An experimental bicycle seat. Clin J Sport Med 2001;11:289–90.

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Testimonial by Julie T.

Femina PT (née Fusion Wellness & Physical Therapy) has honestly changed my life. Before receiving treatment at Femina, I was going doctor to doctor to try and find the answer to my pelvic pain. It has taken me YEARS to find someone that can help fix this. It wasn't until my gynecologist recommended your clinic that I finally felt relief. My pelvic pain is almost gone, and granted I still have a lot more to work on with Laureen (my PT), my original problem is nearly cured. I am so grateful to her.

What is even better is she gave me practical exercises to do at home that were not tedious and provided instant (and lasting) relief. Although I mainly work with Laureen, my interaction with the owner (Heather) has been great. She is very generous, kind, and committed to her business.

It hurts to know there are women out there suffering who will never know or have the opportunity to work with women like Laureen and Heather because this issue is hardly talked about and this field is so rare. I hope more doctors and physical therapists see the value in this work and can relieve more woman of their pain.

-- Julie T., 12/4/16 via Yelp!

Testimonial by M.M.

A personal journey and testimonial from one of my patients:

My husband and I were married for 5 years before we were able to have intercourse due to my vaginismus. There was nothing traumatic in my past but for some reason, even though I wanted sex, I mentally avoided "that area" of my body and didn't even admit to myself that there was a problem for a long time, even though I was never able to put tampons in. Once I finally opened my eyes up to the fact that I had a problem, I had a surgery that was supposed to fix the issue.

Read more: Testimonial by M.M.

Testimonial by P.M.

I was hopeful but frankly skeptical when the doctor treating me for Interstitial Cystitis recommended that I go to Heather for physical therapy. Medication and diet helped control my IC symptoms, but I had never heard of physical therapy being used to treat IC. The education and treatment I received from Heather was a revelation. She explained that the pain I experienced with IC had helped create a cycle of muscle guarding which affected the entire pelvic area. I had no idea of the amount of tension being held there. No wonder my husband and I had not been able to have sexual intercourse for years!

Read more: Testimonial by P.M.

Testimonial by Alexandra B.

Heather is without exaggerating AMAZING! After years of trouble with a certain part of my body, in no time, she made everything change back to equilibrium and to what would be considered normal. She explains everything in detail and therefore gives you a better understanding of why things are the way they are, and how you can work towards turning things around. I would highly recommend Heather for any type of Physical Therapy. She has created her own "Method/Therapy" through years of studying (with some of the greatest practitioners), practice and breaking down the issues of her past patients, enabling her to fine tune her own system. I'm so thankful to have found her, and I'm especially grateful for the quick recovery I've achieved, after years of distress. If you cannot afford her, I recommend you purchase her book. Although it may not be Heather in person, it can still help you to get on the right path to recovery!

-- Alexandra B., 5/20/2015 via Yelp!

Testimonial by M.N., age 28

A personal journey and testimonial from one of my patients:

I was diagnosed with vaginismus 4 years ago. I never heard of such medical condition until after I got married. At first my husband and I didn't know what to do, we didn't know what the issues were or how to overcome it. Being born and raised in Armenia and being Christian I wasn't that open about talking to sex with others and so it wasn't easy to seek help. But eventually I went to an Ob-Gyn and luckily she knew about the medical condition (not many doctors know). She referred me to a physical therapist and I couldn't believe it and thought it's something I can handle myself. I ordered a kit from vaginismus.com and started practicing with dilators. There was some small progress but wasn't much helpful.

Read more: Testimonial by M.N., age 28

Testimonial by S.H., age 24

I just wanted to thank you for everything you've done for me for the past 19 months. I literally could not have reached my goals without you and your practice. You gave me the courage to keep moving forth with my treatment no matter how afraid and anxious I was. You were always there to answer questions and made this whole process so much easier than I expected it to be.

It's because of you that my marriage is on the right track, that I can get pregnant and that this part of my life is finally over. I really feel that Fusion Wellness is a team of people you can call family and are there to root for you and cheer you on until you reach your goals. There is nothing better than knowing I accomplished this with you guys by my side and as calmly and patiently as I needed. Thank you from the bottom of my heart for always being there and helping me reach my goals.

S.H., age 24

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