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Sex Without Pain: A Self-Treatment Guide To The Sex Life You Deserve was written by Heather Jeffcoat, DPT, a physical therapist with countless successes in treating pain of this type. Women with vaginismus, overactive pelvic floor, painful intercourse, vulvodynia, vulvar vestibulitis, vestibulodynia, dyspareunia, interstitial cystitis have all benefited from her unique program. Heather uses her orthopaedic background to approach treatment of these muscles like they are....muscles! She utilizes a self-treatment tool called a dilator to provide massage and other muscle relaxation and stretching techniques in a gentle fashion to return a women's muscles back to a resting, rather than guarded, state.

Sex Without Pain: A Self-Treatment Guide To The Sex Life You Deserve

What Others are Saying About "Sex Without Pain ":

I have seen Heather's treatment program work time and time again with my patients. Her unique approach to treating women with painful intercourse through a combination of hands on skills, patient education and the thorough home program outlined in this book has surpassed the results of her peers. Her techniques and expertise have been an invaluable resource to my practice."

- Kerri Parks, MD (Associate Professor Ob/Gyn USC Keck School of Medicine)


I will use it frequently for clients who cannot afford pelvic floor PT or for those who cannot find pelvic floor PT any where near them! I have so needed this resource. The clarity of each step and the drawings are so helpful - I don't know of any other resource that will be as effective for self-help."

- Joyce Penner, RN, MN (Sexual Therapist, Educator and Co-author of The Gift of Sex, Restoring the Pleasure and numerous other publications)


Sex Without Pain is an essential book for any woman suffering with pelvic or sexual pain. Heather's approach is simple and clear. She empowers the woman and her partner with the resources needed to lead a healthy and pain free sex life. A great read for patients and professionals alike."

- Jennifer Briggs, DPT (Women's Health Physical Therapist, Pennsylvania)


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hormones during pregnancy

Do you really know what happens to your hormones during pregnancy? Do you know what hormones are in play during pregnancy?

Well, let’s go through some of the hormones and their functions during pregnancy, so you can have a better understanding of what is occurring in your body.

  • Human Chorionic Gonadotropin Hormone (hCG): This hormone is made in the placenta and is only produced during pregnancy. Johns Hopkins medicine says that it may be a part of nausea and vomiting that occurs during pregnancy.
  • Human Placental Lactogen (hPL): This is hormone is made in the placenta. It gives nutrition to the fetus and also helps stimulate milk glands in the breasts for breastfeeding.
  • Estrogen: Helps stimulate the growth of your uterus and assists with developing your breast ductal system. This is to prepare for breastfeeding. Your estrogen production during pregnancy increases 30x normal levels!
  • Progesterone: Helps prepare the lining of the uterus to accept a fertilized egg and with high levels of progesterone the body will not ovulate. Once pregnant progesterone levels continue to stay high to stimulate blood flow to the growing fetus and so the body does not produce more eggs. Like estrogen it also assists with breast milk production. This hormone can also cause smooth muscle relaxation, including the GI tract and uterus. Relaxation of the GI tract can be a reason why during pregnancy someone can experience constipation.
  • Relaxin: This hormone is produced by the corpus luteum (an endocrine gland made in the ovary when a follicle has matured and released an egg during ovulation) and the placenta (an organ developed in the uterus during pregnancy that provides oxygen and nutrients to your baby). It inhibits uterine activity and helps relax the pelvic joints to prepare for birth. Relaxin peaks during the first trimester.
  • Oxytocin: Plays a role during childbirth by stimulating contractions of the uterus during labor. It also helps with milk release during breastfeeding by stimulating the milk-ejection reflex post childbirth.
  • Prolactin: This hormone is released when a newborn suckles at their mother’s breast, resulting in the production of milk.

These hormones will have an influence on various systems of the body during pregnancy to prepare for birth and to allow the body to supply mother and fetus. These systems include:

  • Cardiovascular
  • Musculoskeletal
  • Urinary
  • Integumentary
  • Endocrine
  • Immune
  • Respiratory
  • Reproductive
  • Gastrointestinal
  • Sensory

Let’s go over a few examples of what changes are occurring within some of these systems:

Cardiovascular:

For instance, during pregnancy your diastolic blood pressure may decrease ~10-15 mmHg by 24-32 weeks. This is important to consider because body positioning can affect blood pressure. If you are lying on your back be mindful of symptoms of faintness, lightheadedness, dizziness, nausea, or agitation this can be indicative of supine hypotension.

Usually by the second trimester your OBGyn is recommending that you avoid lying on your back due to the possibility of occlusion of the vena cava and aorta in supine positions. You can modify this by using pillows to put yourself on an incline or laying on your side.

Respiratory:

If you notice yourself breathing more deeply, well during pregnancy your oxygen consumption increases by 20%. This is because now half of that oxygen has to go to the fetus and placenta.

Musculoskeletal:

Some common postural changes that occur include forward head posture, increased thoracic kyphosis, rounded shoulders, increased anterior pelvic tilt and usually a wider base of support while the belly becomes larger. So you can imagine with these postural changes and with the stress that is put on the body with increased load on the abdomen that someone can develop musculoskeletal pains.

For instance, some women begin to feel low back pain, hip pain, and pelvic girdle pain. And these symptoms can persist following pregnancy. Also, something to be aware of is that during pregnancy relaxing helps relax ligaments of the pelvic joints.

So when exercising you don't want to do any strenuous adductor (inner thigh muscles) strengthening especially with your legs wide apart. This can put too much stress on the pubic symphysis and lead to over stretching of those ligaments.

What occurs to your body throughout pregnancy and leading up to birth is much more complex than this blog, but we just wanted to share a few insights on the process. The first time you are pregnant it can be overwhelming because a lot of us are not educated on what occurs to our bodies until that day comes. Knowledge is power and can help us better understand and prepare us for when we decide to go through the miracle of pregnancy. And know that a pelvic health therapist can help support you through the journey! Click here to get started.

 

References:

https://www.britannica.com/science/corpus-luteum
https://www.hopkinsmedicine.org/health/conditions-and-diseases/staying-healthy-during-pregnancy/hormones-during-pregnancy
https://www.hormone.org
Irion, J. M. (2013). Womens health in physical therapy. La Vergne, TN: Cram101, Inc.
https://www.mayoclinic.org/healthy-lifestyle/pregnancy-week-by-week/in-depth/placenta/art-20044425
https://my.clevelandclinic.org/health/body/22337-placenta

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Testimonial by R.H.

No one could tell me why I was having pain during sex--sharp pain, not just uncomfortable, pain. I was referred to Heather Jeffcoat after researching several different options. I had seen a specialist who told me physical therapy would not help and my only option was surgery. I really didn't want to go that route, so when we got a referral, I decided to try it--it can't hurt, I thought. I am so glad I did. She diagnosed the problem right away, which was a relief in itself.

To know why I was having pain eased my mind immensely. And to hear that she could fix it without surgery was another relief. She said she could fix the problem in 6 weeks. I think it was actually 4 for me. She was very methodical, and treated me as an intelligent human being capable of participating in my own recovery. I would absolutely recommend her to anyone. She did not try to prolong my session numbers, she worked hard to accommodate my schedule (and the fact that I had to bring a baby to sessions), and she was completely honest the entire time. It is so hard to find someone with these characteristics, much less a professional who is so good at what she does. She has my highest respect.

-- R.H.

Testimonial by Fritzette H.

I went to Heather after the birth of my third child. It was lucky, really, that I was referred to her, because my doctor had referred me to a surgeon for a possible hysterectomy or pelvic wall rebuild. Thankfully, I went to Heather before undergoing either surgery, she was able to fix the problem. She has studied extensively in women's health--even written a book about it--and was able to diagnose my problem, suggest a course of treatment (6 weeks), and then follow through with said treatment. By the end, as she said, I was as good as gold. Boy, was it worth it! Though uncomfortable to talk about, much less write about, it is worth getting the word out there. If you have painful intercourse, especially after birth or other trauma, the treatment may be as simple as Physical Therapy (with Heather, of course). I highly recommend her.

-- Fritzette H., 3/24/16 via Yelp!

Testimonial by R.M., Age 40

I can’t speak highly enough of the theapists at Femina Physical Therapy and how much they have helped me grow, discover, and love my body. I had had painful sex for my entire life, and didn’t know that there was anything that could be done about it. It was at the point where my husband and I were not having sex for MONTHs, because it was just too frustrating, and I hated feeling like I was the ONLY woman out there who had this problem, especially at my age. I finally brought it up to my doctor because I was turning 40 and my husband and I were barely having enough sex to conceive. And she brought up pelvic floor, PT. I didn’t even know this was a “thing”.

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Testimonial by J.H.

My last appointment with Heather was over 6 years ago but I still think of her every day. I don’t take for granted that I can easily get out of bed, care for my two active and busy young boys, run, play tennis, clean my house, or sit at a desk for several hours at a time. None of these tasks were easy for me before meeting Heather. Eight years ago my car was struck from behind by a tractor trailer that was estimated to have been speeding. I spent 3 years working with different PTs and Drs trying to heal and move on with my life. When I became pregnant and the hormone relaxin that “relaxes” all the joints of the body and the additional weight gain erased all my progress and I was suddenly in a lot of pain again. My OB sent me to Heather for one last try.

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Testimonial by A.M.

Months after giving birth, it was difficult for me to go from a sitting or lying position up to a full standing position without feeling that I had to remain hunched over until a bit of time had passed to get fully upright. However, after taking Heather’s course, I learned exercises to get my body back to normal. She also showed me correct ways to lift and carry my son as well as put him in/take him out of the carseat and stroller. This class was really beneficial and Heather is a wonderful teacher who made me feel very comfortable.

-- A.M.

Testimonial by M.N., age 28

A personal journey and testimonial from one of my patients:

I was diagnosed with vaginismus 4 years ago. I never heard of such medical condition until after I got married. At first my husband and I didn't know what to do, we didn't know what the issues were or how to overcome it. Being born and raised in Armenia and being Christian I wasn't that open about talking to sex with others and so it wasn't easy to seek help. But eventually I went to an Ob-Gyn and luckily she knew about the medical condition (not many doctors know). She referred me to a physical therapist and I couldn't believe it and thought it's something I can handle myself. I ordered a kit from vaginismus.com and started practicing with dilators. There was some small progress but wasn't much helpful.

Read more: Testimonial by M.N., age 28

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