Griffin Wynne

Griffin Wynne is a sex and relationships writer at Bustle. Their work centers on all the things you’re “not supposed” to talk about like double texting, OnlyFans, and D-List celebrities’ love lives. They primarily cover sexual health and wellness, gender and sexuality, and internet sex and dating culture, with a focus on sex worker liberation, sex positivity, and reproductive justice. In addition to Bustle, their sex and relationships work has appeared in Cosmopolitan, SELF, Teen Vogue, Elite Daily, Crybaby Zine, and Xtra Magazine. While they’re critical and cautious of the “DIY scene,” Griffin got their start in zines, music journalism, and self-publishing covering queer punk bands and sad people making music in their bedrooms. Their music writing can be found in Razorcake Magazine, She Shreds, and Slumber Mag. Griffin graduated from Occidental College in 2017 with a double major in Religious Studies and Cognitive Science. When they’re not studying the sociological roots of current TikTok trends, Griffin can be found camping, drinking plain seltzer, crying to Liz Phair, working in harm reduction, or going to Goodwill. They’re a Capricorn King, a genderless cowboy, a non-binary bro, and a '70s daddy who is always down for dollar oysters, bonfires, mutual aid, and donating to local abortion funds. Griffin uses they/them pronouns and has the same birthday as Kyle Richards.

Wellness

How Couples Are Dealing With Separation Anxiety As They Go Back To Work

“I know I sound crazy, but it feels dreadful being away from him now.”

By Griffin Wynne

Relationships

Most Relationships End. That Doesn’t Mean They Were A Failure.

The “goal” of love can just be having a nice time.

By Griffin Wynne

Sex

How To Use A Sex Pillow To Make Every Position Even Hotter

They're a great add for solo sessions, too.

By Griffin Wynne

Sex and Relationships

Kourtney Kardashian Is The Ultimate Relationship Chameleon

Taking on your partner's hobbies and interests is healthy — to an extent.

By Griffin Wynne

Ask Gen Z

Gen Z Tells Us How To Avoid Becoming A Dating App Pen Pal

“Switch immediately to a plan.”

By Griffin Wynne

Sex & Relationships

Parasocial Relationships With Celebrities Aren't Necessarily A Bad Thing

Just remember, all your faves are flawed.

By Griffin Wynne

Tech

Bumble's Releasing A "Sober" Badge

No more explaining why you don't want to meet up for drinks.

By Griffin Wynne

Sex & Relationships

How To Tell Your Friend Their Partner Is Emotionally Shady

“A supportive friend can help restore their power.”

By Griffin Wynne

Bachelor

This ‘Bachelor In Paradise’ Dating Red Flag Is Actually Pretty Common

No one should be surprised by the seriousness of a relationship.

By Griffin Wynne

Sex

4 Ways To Increase Your Sex Drive When You’re Feeling Stressed

"Keep the kettle at a low boil."

By Griffin Wynne

Relationships

21 Non-Awkward Texts To Send A First Date You Don't Want To See Again

“Nothing good can come of a long text explaining what about them did not work for you.”

By Griffin Wynne and Mackenzie Sylvester

Relationships

40 Witty Responses To A "What's Up" Message On Tinder

Solid one-liners to liven up the convo.

By Griffin Wynne and Jillian Giandurco

Relationships

How To Have The “What Are We?” Convo In A Situationship

Plus, what to do if they want to keep it casual.

By Griffin Wynne

Sex & Relationships

Recycled Relationships — Four Couples On How It's Different The Second Time Around

In Bennifer we trust.

By Griffin Wynne

Texting

22 Texts That'll Get The Message Across After A Truly Bad Date

No, you can’t just ghost them.

By Griffin Wynne

Sex & Relationships

Is It “Cheating” If Your Partner Subscribes To OnlyFans Accounts?

Not necessarily, but it’s probably time for a check-in.

By Griffin Wynne

Tech

Are Video-First Dating Apps The End Of Swiping?

New app Teleport is like Clubhouse for dating.

By Griffin Wynne

Tech

Wait, So OnlyFans Isn't Banning Porn?

At least, not yet.

By Griffin Wynne

Dating

Your Guide To Tinder Hot Takes

You can now chat with someone before you match.

By Griffin Wynne

Tech

Here’s The Correct Way To Delete Your Tinder

No, you can’t just remove the app from your phone.

By Griffin Wynne