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Sex Without Pain: A Self-Treatment Guide To The Sex Life You Deserve was written by Heather Jeffcoat, DPT, a physical therapist with countless successes in treating pain of this type. Women with vaginismus, overactive pelvic floor, painful intercourse, vulvodynia, vulvar vestibulitis, vestibulodynia, dyspareunia, interstitial cystitis have all benefited from her unique program. Heather uses her orthopaedic background to approach treatment of these muscles like they are....muscles! She utilizes a self-treatment tool called a dilator to provide massage and other muscle relaxation and stretching techniques in a gentle fashion to return a women's muscles back to a resting, rather than guarded, state.

Sex Without Pain: A Self-Treatment Guide To The Sex Life You Deserve

What Others are Saying About "Sex Without Pain ":

I have seen Heather's treatment program work time and time again with my patients. Her unique approach to treating women with painful intercourse through a combination of hands on skills, patient education and the thorough home program outlined in this book has surpassed the results of her peers. Her techniques and expertise have been an invaluable resource to my practice."

- Kerri Parks, MD (Associate Professor Ob/Gyn USC Keck School of Medicine)


I will use it frequently for clients who cannot afford pelvic floor PT or for those who cannot find pelvic floor PT any where near them! I have so needed this resource. The clarity of each step and the drawings are so helpful - I don't know of any other resource that will be as effective for self-help."

- Joyce Penner, RN, MN (Sexual Therapist, Educator and Co-author of The Gift of Sex, Restoring the Pleasure and numerous other publications)


Sex Without Pain is an essential book for any woman suffering with pelvic or sexual pain. Heather's approach is simple and clear. She empowers the woman and her partner with the resources needed to lead a healthy and pain free sex life. A great read for patients and professionals alike."

- Jennifer Briggs, DPT (Women's Health Physical Therapist, Pennsylvania)


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Red Tomato sliced open representing Persistent Genital Arousal Disorder
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Persistent Genital Arousal Disorder (PGAD) is a condition that is poorly understood.

Persistent Genital Arousal Disorder is a rare disorder most commonly seen in those with female anatomy and is characterized persistent sensations of genital arousal in the absence of sexual desire or stimulation. These sensations typically stay after orgasm and are intrusive, unwanted, and can negatively affect quality of life.

The diagnosis itself is not well known among healthcare practitioners yet alone the general public. Those who experience its symptoms can be hesitant to talk about it with their healthcare practitioners even though it may be affecting their quality of life.

PGAD is generally a disorder that affects those with female anatomy, but recent data published suggest that it may affect those with male anatomy as well (Stevenson & Kohler, 2015). The most overarching symptom is persistent arousal of the genitals to the point of it getting in the way of function, habits and routines.

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Prevalence, Misunderstanding, and Under-reporting

The prevalence of Persistent Genital Arousal Disorder in the population is still unknown, but it is believed to affect approximately 1% of women. Some researchers believe that many who have Persistent Genital Arousal Disorder do not report it, out of fear that they will have the social stigma of being hypersexual (Klifto & Dellon, 2019).

Diagnosis

Persistent Genital Arousal Disorder is generally diagnosed based on the following 5 criteria, but not all practitioners agree fully and there is no professional consensus (Klifto & Dellon, 2019):

  • genitals are persistently aroused
  • arousal remains following orgasm or requires multiple orgasms to diminish
  • arousal is unrelated to desire
  • arousal is triggered by both sexual and non-sexual stimuli
  • symptoms are intrusive and unwelcomed
  • male anatomy may experience sensations of arousal and ejaculation or orgasm without an erection

What Causes Persistent Genital Arousal Disorder?

The causes of PGAD can vary, which is why accurate diagnosis by a trained doctor is essential.

A thorough evaluation will include a detailed medical history, mental health history, medications, diet, risks of vascular/neurologic disorders, examination of the external genitalia, a pelvic exam and possible labs to look at hormone levels.

Imaging via pelvic ultrasound/doppler may also be used to rule out pelvic masses. Your doctor may also do neurological testing if they suspect any implications of the nervous system, including the pudendal nerve.

Depending on what is causing the Persistent Genital Arousal Disorder, treatment will look different and will often require a team of healthcare practitioners taking care of the mind and body.

Psychological/cognitive

If Persistent Genital Arousal Disorder symptoms are caused or exacerbated by stress and anxiety, therapy, particularly focused on cognitive-behavioral strategies and mindfulness are appropriate for treating Persistent Genital Arousal Disorder.

Neuropathic

When nerves are entrapped they might exacerbate Persistent Genital Arousal Disorder symptoms. If the nervous system is contributing to Persistent Genital Arousal Disorder, treatment may include medicines which would be prescribed by a doctor and modalities such therapeutic exercise, manual therapy, and modalities like transcutaneous nerve stimulation.

How Pelvic Floor Physical therapy Can Help

The treatment modalities you will receive in pelvic floor therapy for Persistent Genital Arousal Disorder will depend on what your care team has identified as the causes of the symptoms. For example, if your pelvic floor muscles are tight and causing nerve entrapment, the techniques used will focus on releasing the tension in the pelvic floor.

Some of the modalities used at Femina Physical Therapy can include (but are not limited to):

  • Manual therapy including soft tissue massage, connective tissue manipulation, muscle energy techniques, and myofascial release to treat connective tissue dysfunction and myofascial trigger points
  • Internal pelvic manual therapy to treat sensitive tissues, muscle spasms, trigger points, and muscle guarding that can cause issues like pain with sex, frequency and urgency of urination, and pain with bowel movements
  • Therapeutic exercises to release entrapped nerves or strengthen the pelvic floor
  • Biofeedback technology to help you focus on relaxing the pelvic floor
  • Photobiomodulation Therapy for pain relief and encouraging cellular healing and desensitization of scar tissue adhesions, tender trigger points, and muscle spasm pain.
  • Visceral mobilization (gentle massage techniques that loosen internal adhesions and restore movement to the organs including the intestine, bladder, uterus, and ovaries) to improve motility and GI organ function
  • Training in self treatment techniques so you can start to manage your systems at home. These techniques can include self pelvicfloor massage using medical dilators
  • Neuromuscular re-education and autogenic relaxation to reduce chronic muscle over-activity and improve parasympathetic nervous system function, including pain management and digestion
  • Patient Education and Empowerment
  • Lifestyle modifications like sexual positioning, stress reduction, bladder and bowel habits, hygiene, and optimal fluid intake and dietary fiber intake to control other factors that may be contributing to pelvic floor dysfunction.

Help is on the way

If you are being affected by Persistent Genital Arousal Disorder, let us know how we can help by using our simple contact form here, or if you are ready to book an appointment, you can do so here.

Resources

Klifto, K. M., & Dellon, A. L. (2019). Persistent Genital Arousal Disorder: Review of Pertinent Peripheral Nerves. Sexual Medicine Reviews. doi:10.1016/j.sxmr.2019.10.001

Facelle, T. M., Sadeghi‐Nejad, H., & Goldmeier, D. (2013). Persistent Genital Arousal Disorder: Characterization, Etiology, and Management. The Journal of Sexual Medicine, 10(2), 439–450. doi:10.1111/j.1743-6109.2012.02990.x

Garvey LJ, West C, Latch N, et al. Report of spontaneous and persistent genital arousal in women attending a sexual health clinic. Int J STD AIDS 2009;20:519-521.

Jackowich RA, Pink L, Gordon A, et al. Persistent Genital Arousal Disorder: a review of its conceptualizations, potential origins, impact, and treatment. Sex Med Rev 2016;4:329- 342.

Stevenson BJ, Kohler TS. First reported case of isolated persistent genital arousal disorder in a male. Case Rep Urol 2015;2015:465748.

Yildirim EA, Hacioglu M, Essizoglu A, et al. Persistent Genital Arousal Disorder misdiagnosed because of Islamic religious bathing rituals: a report of three cases. J Sex Marital Ther 2012;38:436-444.

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Testimonial by Amanda W.

Heather's unique physical therapy program literally changed my life! After years of struggling with vaginismus, a condition that made it impossible for me to have intercourse and very difficult to use tampons without pain, a gynecologist referred me to Heather. I was nervous for my first appointment, but Heather's professional and friendly demeanor put me at ease. She did a great job explaining each technique she was using to help my muscles relax. Heather uses a combination of internal and external stretches and exercises to relax the pelvic floor and build muscle strength. Her specially developed home program helped me quickly recover from an issue that seemed insurmountable before meeting Heather. She was optimistic about my progress and incredibly encouraging. Less than 6 months after my first session, I was able to have pain-free sex for the first time in my life! If you are suffering from vaginismus or any other pelvic floor issues, I highly recommend making an appointment with Heather and reading her book!

-- Amanda W., 2/15/16 via Yelp!

Testimonial by M.N., age 28

A personal journey and testimonial from one of my patients:

I was diagnosed with vaginismus 4 years ago. I never heard of such medical condition until after I got married. At first my husband and I didn't know what to do, we didn't know what the issues were or how to overcome it. Being born and raised in Armenia and being Christian I wasn't that open about talking to sex with others and so it wasn't easy to seek help. But eventually I went to an Ob-Gyn and luckily she knew about the medical condition (not many doctors know). She referred me to a physical therapist and I couldn't believe it and thought it's something I can handle myself. I ordered a kit from vaginismus.com and started practicing with dilators. There was some small progress but wasn't much helpful.

Read more: Testimonial by M.N., age 28

Testimonial by M.M.

A personal journey and testimonial from one of my patients:

My husband and I were married for 5 years before we were able to have intercourse due to my vaginismus. There was nothing traumatic in my past but for some reason, even though I wanted sex, I mentally avoided "that area" of my body and didn't even admit to myself that there was a problem for a long time, even though I was never able to put tampons in. Once I finally opened my eyes up to the fact that I had a problem, I had a surgery that was supposed to fix the issue.

Read more: Testimonial by M.M.

Testimonial by R.M., Age 40

I can’t speak highly enough of the theapists at Femina Physical Therapy and how much they have helped me grow, discover, and love my body. I had had painful sex for my entire life, and didn’t know that there was anything that could be done about it. It was at the point where my husband and I were not having sex for MONTHs, because it was just too frustrating, and I hated feeling like I was the ONLY woman out there who had this problem, especially at my age. I finally brought it up to my doctor because I was turning 40 and my husband and I were barely having enough sex to conceive. And she brought up pelvic floor, PT. I didn’t even know this was a “thing”.

Read more: Testimonial by R.M., Age 40

Testimonial by M.M.

A personal journey and testimonial from one of my patients:

My husband and I were married for 5 years before we were able to have intercourse due to my vaginismus. There was nothing traumatic in my past but for some reason, even though I wanted sex, I mentally avoided "that area" of my body and didn't even admit to myself that there was a problem for a long time, even though I was never able to put tampons in. Once I finally opened my eyes up to the fact that I had a problem, I had a surgery that was supposed to fix the issue.

Read more: Testimonial by M.M.

Testimonial by J.H.

My last appointment with Heather was over 6 years ago but I still think of her every day. I don’t take for granted that I can easily get out of bed, care for my two active and busy young boys, run, play tennis, clean my house, or sit at a desk for several hours at a time. None of these tasks were easy for me before meeting Heather. Eight years ago my car was struck from behind by a tractor trailer that was estimated to have been speeding. I spent 3 years working with different PTs and Drs trying to heal and move on with my life. When I became pregnant and the hormone relaxin that “relaxes” all the joints of the body and the additional weight gain erased all my progress and I was suddenly in a lot of pain again. My OB sent me to Heather for one last try.

Read more: Testimonial by J.H.

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