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Sex Without Pain: A Self-Treatment Guide To The Sex Life You Deserve was written by Heather Jeffcoat, DPT, a physical therapist with countless successes in treating pain of this type. Women with vaginismus, overactive pelvic floor, painful intercourse, vulvodynia, vulvar vestibulitis, vestibulodynia, dyspareunia, interstitial cystitis have all benefited from her unique program. Heather uses her orthopaedic background to approach treatment of these muscles like they are....muscles! She utilizes a self-treatment tool called a dilator to provide massage and other muscle relaxation and stretching techniques in a gentle fashion to return a women's muscles back to a resting, rather than guarded, state.

Sex Without Pain: A Self-Treatment Guide To The Sex Life You Deserve

What Others are Saying About "Sex Without Pain ":

I have seen Heather's treatment program work time and time again with my patients. Her unique approach to treating women with painful intercourse through a combination of hands on skills, patient education and the thorough home program outlined in this book has surpassed the results of her peers. Her techniques and expertise have been an invaluable resource to my practice."

- Kerri Parks, MD (Associate Professor Ob/Gyn USC Keck School of Medicine)


I will use it frequently for clients who cannot afford pelvic floor PT or for those who cannot find pelvic floor PT any where near them! I have so needed this resource. The clarity of each step and the drawings are so helpful - I don't know of any other resource that will be as effective for self-help."

- Joyce Penner, RN, MN (Sexual Therapist, Educator and Co-author of The Gift of Sex, Restoring the Pleasure and numerous other publications)


Sex Without Pain is an essential book for any woman suffering with pelvic or sexual pain. Heather's approach is simple and clear. She empowers the woman and her partner with the resources needed to lead a healthy and pain free sex life. A great read for patients and professionals alike."

- Jennifer Briggs, DPT (Women's Health Physical Therapist, Pennsylvania)


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hormones during pregnancy

Do you really know what happens to your hormones during pregnancy? Do you know what hormones are in play during pregnancy?

Well, let’s go through some of the hormones and their functions during pregnancy, so you can have a better understanding of what is occurring in your body.

  • Human Chorionic Gonadotropin Hormone (hCG): This hormone is made in the placenta and is only produced during pregnancy. Johns Hopkins medicine says that it may be a part of nausea and vomiting that occurs during pregnancy.
  • Human Placental Lactogen (hPL): This is hormone is made in the placenta. It gives nutrition to the fetus and also helps stimulate milk glands in the breasts for breastfeeding.
  • Estrogen: Helps stimulate the growth of your uterus and assists with developing your breast ductal system. This is to prepare for breastfeeding. Your estrogen production during pregnancy increases 30x normal levels!
  • Progesterone: Helps prepare the lining of the uterus to accept a fertilized egg and with high levels of progesterone the body will not ovulate. Once pregnant progesterone levels continue to stay high to stimulate blood flow to the growing fetus and so the body does not produce more eggs. Like estrogen it also assists with breast milk production. This hormone can also cause smooth muscle relaxation, including the GI tract and uterus. Relaxation of the GI tract can be a reason why during pregnancy someone can experience constipation.
  • Relaxin: This hormone is produced by the corpus luteum (an endocrine gland made in the ovary when a follicle has matured and released an egg during ovulation) and the placenta (an organ developed in the uterus during pregnancy that provides oxygen and nutrients to your baby). It inhibits uterine activity and helps relax the pelvic joints to prepare for birth. Relaxin peaks during the first trimester.
  • Oxytocin: Plays a role during childbirth by stimulating contractions of the uterus during labor. It also helps with milk release during breastfeeding by stimulating the milk-ejection reflex post childbirth.
  • Prolactin: This hormone is released when a newborn suckles at their mother’s breast, resulting in the production of milk.

These hormones will have an influence on various systems of the body during pregnancy to prepare for birth and to allow the body to supply mother and fetus. These systems include:

  • Cardiovascular
  • Musculoskeletal
  • Urinary
  • Integumentary
  • Endocrine
  • Immune
  • Respiratory
  • Reproductive
  • Gastrointestinal
  • Sensory

Let’s go over a few examples of what changes are occurring within some of these systems:

Cardiovascular:

For instance, during pregnancy your diastolic blood pressure may decrease ~10-15 mmHg by 24-32 weeks. This is important to consider because body positioning can affect blood pressure. If you are lying on your back be mindful of symptoms of faintness, lightheadedness, dizziness, nausea, or agitation this can be indicative of supine hypotension.

Usually by the second trimester your OBGyn is recommending that you avoid lying on your back due to the possibility of occlusion of the vena cava and aorta in supine positions. You can modify this by using pillows to put yourself on an incline or laying on your side.

Respiratory:

If you notice yourself breathing more deeply, well during pregnancy your oxygen consumption increases by 20%. This is because now half of that oxygen has to go to the fetus and placenta.

Musculoskeletal:

Some common postural changes that occur include forward head posture, increased thoracic kyphosis, rounded shoulders, increased anterior pelvic tilt and usually a wider base of support while the belly becomes larger. So you can imagine with these postural changes and with the stress that is put on the body with increased load on the abdomen that someone can develop musculoskeletal pains.

For instance, some women begin to feel low back pain, hip pain, and pelvic girdle pain. And these symptoms can persist following pregnancy. Also, something to be aware of is that during pregnancy relaxing helps relax ligaments of the pelvic joints.

So when exercising you don't want to do any strenuous adductor (inner thigh muscles) strengthening especially with your legs wide apart. This can put too much stress on the pubic symphysis and lead to over stretching of those ligaments.

What occurs to your body throughout pregnancy and leading up to birth is much more complex than this blog, but we just wanted to share a few insights on the process. The first time you are pregnant it can be overwhelming because a lot of us are not educated on what occurs to our bodies until that day comes. Knowledge is power and can help us better understand and prepare us for when we decide to go through the miracle of pregnancy. And know that a pelvic health therapist can help support you through the journey! Click here to get started.

 

References:

https://www.britannica.com/science/corpus-luteum
https://www.hopkinsmedicine.org/health/conditions-and-diseases/staying-healthy-during-pregnancy/hormones-during-pregnancy
https://www.hormone.org
Irion, J. M. (2013). Womens health in physical therapy. La Vergne, TN: Cram101, Inc.
https://www.mayoclinic.org/healthy-lifestyle/pregnancy-week-by-week/in-depth/placenta/art-20044425
https://my.clevelandclinic.org/health/body/22337-placenta

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Testimonial by A.B.

Before I was referred to Heather Jeffcoat I was living in a nightmare. I had been married to my husband for three years and I was suffering from Vaginismus. That all changed when I visited my OBGYN and she said she knew of someone with a great success rate. To be honest I was hesitant at first because my first doctor had already told me that all I needed to do was order dilators from the internet and I should overcome my problem. She was wrong because I had followed the book on how to use the dilators with absolutely no advancements in my condition. However, that all changed when I went in for my first visit and Heather took the time to explain my condition and how we were going to work together to overcome it.

I remember leaving her office with a glimmer of hope that I could live a normal life. As my sessions continued I began to see immediate results. With only four sessions and a strict dedication to my home programs I was cured of Vaginismus. In the beginning of this process I was made aware that my health insurance company might not cover the costs, which was disappointing but today I can say one hundred percent that it was the best money I ever spent. Now thanks to Heather I am finally enjoying my life to the fullest with my husband. Thank you Heather, I can’t begin to tell you how much I appreciate all that you have done for me. I will never forget it. Those who are suffering from these types of conditions don’t be afraid because she makes you feel so comfortable and the end result is worth it. Good luck to you all and I hope you experience the success I have.
-- A.B.

Testimonial by A.B.

Before I was referred to Heather Jeffcoat I was living in a nightmare. I had been married to my husband for three years and I was suffering from Vaginismus. That all changed when I visited my OBGYN and she said she knew of someone with a great success rate. To be honest I was hesitant at first because my first doctor had already told me that all I needed to do was order dilators from the internet and I should overcome my problem. She was wrong because I had followed the book on how to use the dilators with absolutely no advancements in my condition. However, that all changed when I went in for my first visit and Heather took the time to explain my condition and how we were going to work together to overcome it.

I remember leaving her office with a glimmer of hope that I could live a normal life. As my sessions continued I began to see immediate results. With only four sessions and a strict dedication to my home programs I was cured of Vaginismus. In the beginning of this process I was made aware that my health insurance company might not cover the costs, which was disappointing but today I can say one hundred percent that it was the best money I ever spent. Now thanks to Heather I am finally enjoying my life to the fullest with my husband. Thank you Heather, I can’t begin to tell you how much I appreciate all that you have done for me. I will never forget it. Those who are suffering from these types of conditions don’t be afraid because she makes you feel so comfortable and the end result is worth it. Good luck to you all and I hope you experience the success I have.
-- A.B.

Testimonial by M.M.

My husband and I were married for 5 years and unable to have intercourse, but I never knew why. After numerous awful experiences at doctor’s offices (where many doctors told me I “just needed to relax”), a surgery that didn’t fix the problem, and a year of owning dilators that didn’t get me anywhere, someone finally referred me to Heather for Physical Therapy. I finally had answers and information from someone who knew exactly what I was dealing with!

Read more: Testimonial by M.M.

Testimonial by Jackie W.

I was in multiple car accidents a decade ago, and I have been to many physical therapists through the years without success. They found the root of my lower back pain problems and after nearly a decade of barely being able to walk I finally can again without pain. They are also the best pelvic floor pts and the only ones who found the connection between my pelvic floor and lower back problems. If you need help with physical pain, they are your answer.

-- Jackie W., 1/19/17 via Yelp!

Testimonial by Julie T.

Femina PT (née Fusion Wellness & Physical Therapy) has honestly changed my life. Before receiving treatment at Femina, I was going doctor to doctor to try and find the answer to my pelvic pain. It has taken me YEARS to find someone that can help fix this. It wasn't until my gynecologist recommended your clinic that I finally felt relief. My pelvic pain is almost gone, and granted I still have a lot more to work on with Laureen (my PT), my original problem is nearly cured. I am so grateful to her.

What is even better is she gave me practical exercises to do at home that were not tedious and provided instant (and lasting) relief. Although I mainly work with Laureen, my interaction with the owner (Heather) has been great. She is very generous, kind, and committed to her business.

It hurts to know there are women out there suffering who will never know or have the opportunity to work with women like Laureen and Heather because this issue is hardly talked about and this field is so rare. I hope more doctors and physical therapists see the value in this work and can relieve more woman of their pain.

-- Julie T., 12/4/16 via Yelp!

Testimonial by J.B.

My husband and I were having problems with painful intercourse. My therapist recommended that I go and get a pelvic floor evaluation from a physical therapist. Having never been treated by a physical therapist, I wondered how this really was going to help me. My husband who is a physician was very supportive and agreed that a PT evaluation would be a great idea. So i made the appointment and was blown away by what I learned. I had no idea that pelvic floor muscles could get tight and have trigger points just like any other muscle in the body. I'm a massage therapist and very familiar with tight muscles, and this new thought really amazed me. Heather's program to help relax and strengthen these muscles made such a difference. I can say that I am 100% pain free during intercourse now. Yippee! Going to the PT appointments and doing the at-home exercises was definitely a discipline, but it's 100% worth it! The rewards are amazing.

-- J.B.

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