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Muscles and Potty Training | Image Courtesy of Jessica Reeves and her son Zeek
Muscles and Potty Training | Image Courtesy of Jessica Reeves and her son Zeek

Muscles And Potty Training, What's the Connection?

Red flags to spot once your child starts potty training, how to prevent poor habits from forming, and when to see a pelvic floor physical therapist

Believe it or not children can show signs of a pelvic floor dysfunction like adults AND show similar signs and symptoms. Pelvic floor physical therapy is for anyone with a human body… these are the muscles that hold up our organs and prevent them from falling out (literally)! Pelvic floor dysfunctions can occur when the muscles of the pelvic floor have lost the ability to properly contact or fully relax.

Symptoms in children tend to become noticeable once potty training begins and have the potential to linger into their teens/ adulthood if gone untreated. It is important to pay attention to behaviors and poor habits that could indicate your child is having a tough time on the toilet.

Here are some signs to look for in your child once the potty training process begins:

  1. Frequent urination (normal is every 2-3 hrs a day)
  2. Frequent accidents- especially when engaging in activities ie. monkey bars, running, playing with others
  3. Child complaining of painful urination or painful bowel movements or showing facial signs of cringing, wincing, grimacing
  4. Genital irritation or frequent itching, rubbing, or redness
  5. Straining, pushing, turning red in the face, clenching fists, pointing toes. These are all signs of a child with constipation or overworking to void
  6. Hypotonia - low muscle tone commonly seen in diagnosis of muscular dystrophy or downs syndrome

Prevention:

  1. Avoid telling your child to go to the bathroom just in case and provide lots of positive feedback for potty training. A regular voiding schedule is every 2-3 hours. It will be helpful to keep your child on a voiding schedule to avoid over distending the bladder
  2. Do not allow any distractions when using the potty (iPads, books, toys). Distraction often leads to not fully emptying their bladder. If the bladder is not fully empty this could cause increased tightness in the muscles and bacteria growth.
  3. Do encourage deep belly breathing; try having them sing songs, blow bubbles, or blow on a pinwheel
  4. Avoid letting your child’s feet dangle while sitting on the toilet (have them placed on a stool). This will cause the core and leg muscles to work too hard and not allow for pelvic floor muscles to relax to void
  5. Regular bowel movements. The rectum is a neighbor to the bladder and when too full it will push on the bladder causing increased sensation of urination and difficulty fully emptying the bladder.

Physical therapists can assist with your child’s pelvic floor by improving their quality of movements, muscle strength, muscle length and muscle coordination with functional play. What is functional play? This is a physical therapist’s way of disguising exercises and stretching to be FUN and ENGAGING. A child’s brain develops from the front to back; meaning treatments for an adult are not always suitable or effective for that of a child. Remember: Children are not small adults.

Knowing this potty training timeline can assist in communication with your child and understanding how to best meet their needs when participating in a physical therapy program.

The first part of a child’s brain to develop (birth-1 yr) after the brainstem is called the cerebellum. This portion of the brain wants to MOVE A LOT, dance, wiggle, roll and jump.

The second part of brain development is the occipital lobe (birth-2yrs), which is in charge of visual processing; adding interesting toys for visual tracking, visual instructions, visual models help stimulate this part of the brain.

Third to develop is the parietal lobe (birth-6yrs) for touch and language. Temporal lobe (birth to 6yrs) and the Limbic System (8mos to 2 yrs) is in charge of hearing, learning and emotions. Singing, reading, listening, holding objects, pushing, twisting, dropping, opening and closing items are all ways to stimulate this part of the brain.

The final portion of the brain to develop is the Frontal lobe - Concrete thinking (3-12 yrs) and Prefrontal Cortex - Judgment (12-22yrs). This part of the brain encourages problem solving, memory and planning. Giving choices, breaking down tasks, sticker charts, and noticing patterns are ways to help stimulate this part of the brain.

What to do when potty training today:

  1. See your pediatrician or a pediatric urologist to discuss possible contributing factors and to see if pediatric pelvic floor physical therapy is a good option for your child.
  2. Treat any underlying conditions (urinary tract infections, parasites, etc.) that may be affecting bowel and bladder function with the help of your doctor.
  3. Receive a referral for pediatric pelvic floor physical therapy and give Fusion Wellness and Physical Therapy a call to schedule an appointment.

References:

De Paepe, H et al. “Pelvic-floor therapy and toilet training in young children with dysfunctional voiding and obstipation.” BJU international vol. 85,7 (2000): 889-93. doi:10.1046/j.1464-410x.2000.00664.x

“Toilet Training: A Practical Guide.” Raising Children Network, 30 July 2020

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I started seeing Heather in October 2014. For more than two years, I had been suffering from painful urinary tract infection type symptoms after my bartholins gland surgery which included constant burning and urinary frequency sensation that led to more and more painful intercourse. I had made multiple visits to internist, obgyn and urologist's offices, went through a range of treatment with UTI and bladder frequency medication that included antibiotics, vesicare, estrogen cream, but nothing worked.

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Heather has affected my life in the MOST POSITIVE way and I am forever grateful. My husband refers to her as the "sex doctor" so you can only imagine how happy he is with my therapy outcome.

After the birth of my son I suffered from "Vaginismus", however, at the time I just thought I was broken. My "broken vagina" affected me physically but it was an emotional struggle as well. Many women in my life also suffered with pain from sex after their babies were born so I knew I wasn't alone. They told me they "just got used to it" but I couldn't see myself living that way.

Sex wasn't just painful, it was literally impossible - IT DIDNT FIT!

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Before I was referred to Heather Jeffcoat I was living in a nightmare. I had been married to my husband for three years and I was suffering from Vaginismus. That all changed when I visited my OBGYN and she said she knew of someone with a great success rate. To be honest I was hesitant at first because my first doctor had already told me that all I needed to do was order dilators from the internet and I should overcome my problem. She was wrong because I had followed the book on how to use the dilators with absolutely no advancements in my condition. However, that all changed when I went in for my first visit and Heather took the time to explain my condition and how we were going to work together to overcome it.

I remember leaving her office with a glimmer of hope that I could live a normal life. As my sessions continued I began to see immediate results. With only four sessions and a strict dedication to my home programs I was cured of Vaginismus. In the beginning of this process I was made aware that my health insurance company might not cover the costs, which was disappointing but today I can say one hundred percent that it was the best money I ever spent. Now thanks to Heather I am finally enjoying my life to the fullest with my husband. Thank you Heather, I can’t begin to tell you how much I appreciate all that you have done for me. I will never forget it. Those who are suffering from these types of conditions don’t be afraid because she makes you feel so comfortable and the end result is worth it. Good luck to you all and I hope you experience the success I have.
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Testimonial by Julie T.

Femina PT (née Fusion Wellness & Physical Therapy) has honestly changed my life. Before receiving treatment at Femina, I was going doctor to doctor to try and find the answer to my pelvic pain. It has taken me YEARS to find someone that can help fix this. It wasn't until my gynecologist recommended your clinic that I finally felt relief. My pelvic pain is almost gone, and granted I still have a lot more to work on with Laureen (my PT), my original problem is nearly cured. I am so grateful to her.

What is even better is she gave me practical exercises to do at home that were not tedious and provided instant (and lasting) relief. Although I mainly work with Laureen, my interaction with the owner (Heather) has been great. She is very generous, kind, and committed to her business.

It hurts to know there are women out there suffering who will never know or have the opportunity to work with women like Laureen and Heather because this issue is hardly talked about and this field is so rare. I hope more doctors and physical therapists see the value in this work and can relieve more woman of their pain.

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Testimonial by M.M.

A personal journey and testimonial from one of my patients:

My husband and I were married for 5 years before we were able to have intercourse due to my vaginismus. There was nothing traumatic in my past but for some reason, even though I wanted sex, I mentally avoided "that area" of my body and didn't even admit to myself that there was a problem for a long time, even though I was never able to put tampons in. Once I finally opened my eyes up to the fact that I had a problem, I had a surgery that was supposed to fix the issue.

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I can’t speak highly enough of the theapists at Femina Physical Therapy and how much they have helped me grow, discover, and love my body. I had had painful sex for my entire life, and didn’t know that there was anything that could be done about it. It was at the point where my husband and I were not having sex for MONTHs, because it was just too frustrating, and I hated feeling like I was the ONLY woman out there who had this problem, especially at my age. I finally brought it up to my doctor because I was turning 40 and my husband and I were barely having enough sex to conceive. And she brought up pelvic floor, PT. I didn’t even know this was a “thing”.

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