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Mental Health and Sexual Pain: Sexual Dysfunction is Not “In Your Head”.

We have seen that experiencing sexual pain CAN affect your mental health, and pre-existing mental health conditions can amplify sexual dysfunction.

This article will review the research related to these, but in reading, know that we believe your pain is real and should be addressed from all relevant contributing factors.

A very large range, about 7-46% of Americans may experience painful sex. For some, it may be a one-time painful experience, and for others, it may be every single time. This can have a huge effect on mental health and overall quality of life.

There may be an underlying reason for the pain, such as dermatological issues, perineal trauma from childbirth, chronic UTI or yeast infections, hormonal deficiencies, endometriosis, high pelvic floor muscle tone, etc. Unfortunately, whatever the cause may be, this can cause a cascade of events, and greatly affect our mental health.

One study of older women (aged 50-99) suggested that sexual health is linked more strongly to mental health than to physical function, stress, or age itself. However, the reverse of this is also possible, as those with mental health disorders may be at increased risk for sexual dysfunction disorders. According to Basson & Gilks, psychiatric disease is the most important risk factor for sexual health disorders. More recent research highlights the high possibility that there is an underlying vulnerability to both psychiatric disease and sexual dysfunction.

Depression:

If one has pain while engaging in sexual activities, it is understandable that one would feel frustrated and perpetuate the depressive thoughts. Depression not only may worsen or affect sexuality physically, but it can also affect our sexual arousal and desire, thus affecting our ability to feel pleasure during sexual activity. The Study of Women’s Health Across the Nation (SWAN) confirmed history of recurrent depression to be associated with reduced sexual arousal and reduced sexual pleasure. Even in those that are not diagnosed with clinical depression, our moods can certainly affect sexual function and vice versa. 

Anxiety:

Not only are anxiety disorders a risk factor for low sexual desire or arousal, there is also research that ties anxiety with difficulties achieving orgasm and experiencing pain with sex. In addition, provoked vestibulodynia is ten times more common in women with a history of anxiety disorders. This may be related to the upregulation of the sympathetic nervous system (think “fight or flight” or “freeze”.) When we are more consistently in an upregulated state, sympathetic nerves that are connected to the pelvic floor muscles may cause tension unconsciously. Over time, tense or guarded muscles can develop trigger points, and can create pain with sexual activity.

Conclusion:

Sexual dysfunction is intimately connected with stress, anxiety and depression. Please check out our blog post regarding chronic stress and its impact on your sex life. Of all, depression has the most impact when it comes to sexual function. Treatment should be inclusive and not only include the physical aspect of pain, but also the interpersonal, psychosocial and environmental factors as well. As pelvic floor physical therapists, we can help treat your symptoms physically (pelvic floor muscles, hips, low back, abdominals!), incorporate techniques to help downregulate your autonomic nervous system, and work with you alongside with a mental health professional. As a team, we can help you improve your sexual and mental health! 

References:

Basson R & Gilks T. Women’s sexual dysfunction associated with psychiatric disorders and their treatment. 2018. Women’s Health; 2018;1-16. doi : 10.1177/1745506518762664

Sorenson J. Bautista KE, Lamvu G, Feranec J. Evaluation and Treatment of Female Sexual Pain: A Clinical Review. Cureus 10(3): e2379. DOI 10.7759/cureus.2379

Tayyeb M, Gupta V., Dyspareunia. [Updated 2021 Jun 11]. In: StatPearls [Internet]. Treasure Island (FL): StatPearls Publishing; 2021. 

Yazdanpanahi Z, Nikkholgh M, Akbarzadeh M, Pourahmad S. Stress, anxiety, depression, and sexual dysfunction among postmenopausal women in Shiraz, Iran, 2015. J Fam Community Med 2018;25:82-7.

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I wish i could give this place 10 stars!! 
I have been suffering from vaginismus for 5 years and never found the cure to it. I had seen an ob/gyn and he diagnosed me with vaginismus and told me i needed a surgery to cure my condition, which i refused to do. He also referred me to a PT that he works with, i had given them multiple calls and they never responded back to me, so i started searching yelp for another PT. I am SO HAPPY I found Heather's office! I was working with Laureen, and with her guidance and techniques i was able to be cured from vaginismus in only 2 1/2 short months!!! I couldn't believe how quickly their program worked for me! I am forever grateful and thankful from Heather, and Laureen! They are the absolute best at what they do!

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While pregnant with my twins, Heather took care with keeping me on my feet and pain free. She saved my back, my sanity and the holidays! I would recommend her to every “mom” looking to stay on her feet during pregnancy and post-partum.

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Months after giving birth, it was difficult for me to go from a sitting or lying position up to a full standing position without feeling that I had to remain hunched over until a bit of time had passed to get fully upright. However, after taking Heather’s course, I learned exercises to get my body back to normal. She also showed me correct ways to lift and carry my son as well as put him in/take him out of the carseat and stroller. This class was really beneficial and Heather is a wonderful teacher who made me feel very comfortable.

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No one could tell me why I was having pain during sex--sharp pain, not just uncomfortable, pain. I was referred to Heather Jeffcoat after researching several different options. I had seen a specialist who told me physical therapy would not help and my only option was surgery. I really didn't want to go that route, so when we got a referral, I decided to try it--it can't hurt, I thought. I am so glad I did. She diagnosed the problem right away, which was a relief in itself.

To know why I was having pain eased my mind immensely. And to hear that she could fix it without surgery was another relief. She said she could fix the problem in 6 weeks. I think it was actually 4 for me. She was very methodical, and treated me as an intelligent human being capable of participating in my own recovery. I would absolutely recommend her to anyone. She did not try to prolong my session numbers, she worked hard to accommodate my schedule (and the fact that I had to bring a baby to sessions), and she was completely honest the entire time. It is so hard to find someone with these characteristics, much less a professional who is so good at what she does. She has my highest respect.

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Testimonial by Amanda W.

Heather's unique physical therapy program literally changed my life! After years of struggling with vaginismus, a condition that made it impossible for me to have intercourse and very difficult to use tampons without pain, a gynecologist referred me to Heather. I was nervous for my first appointment, but Heather's professional and friendly demeanor put me at ease. She did a great job explaining each technique she was using to help my muscles relax. Heather uses a combination of internal and external stretches and exercises to relax the pelvic floor and build muscle strength. Her specially developed home program helped me quickly recover from an issue that seemed insurmountable before meeting Heather. She was optimistic about my progress and incredibly encouraging. Less than 6 months after my first session, I was able to have pain-free sex for the first time in my life! If you are suffering from vaginismus or any other pelvic floor issues, I highly recommend making an appointment with Heather and reading her book!

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My husband and I were having problems with painful intercourse. My therapist recommended that I go and get a pelvic floor evaluation from a physical therapist. Having never been treated by a physical therapist, I wondered how this really was going to help me. My husband who is a physician was very supportive and agreed that a PT evaluation would be a great idea. So i made the appointment and was blown away by what I learned. I had no idea that pelvic floor muscles could get tight and have trigger points just like any other muscle in the body. I'm a massage therapist and very familiar with tight muscles, and this new thought really amazed me. Heather's program to help relax and strengthen these muscles made such a difference. I can say that I am 100% pain free during intercourse now. Yippee! Going to the PT appointments and doing the at-home exercises was definitely a discipline, but it's 100% worth it! The rewards are amazing.

-- J.B.

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