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Mental Health and Sexual Pain: Sexual Dysfunction is Not “In Your Head”.

We have seen that experiencing sexual pain CAN affect your mental health, and pre-existing mental health conditions can amplify sexual dysfunction.

This article will review the research related to these, but in reading, know that we believe your pain is real and should be addressed from all relevant contributing factors.

A very large range, about 7-46% of Americans may experience painful sex. For some, it may be a one-time painful experience, and for others, it may be every single time. This can have a huge effect on mental health and overall quality of life.

There may be an underlying reason for the pain, such as dermatological issues, perineal trauma from childbirth, chronic UTI or yeast infections, hormonal deficiencies, endometriosis, high pelvic floor muscle tone, etc. Unfortunately, whatever the cause may be, this can cause a cascade of events, and greatly affect our mental health.

One study of older women (aged 50-99) suggested that sexual health is linked more strongly to mental health than to physical function, stress, or age itself. However, the reverse of this is also possible, as those with mental health disorders may be at increased risk for sexual dysfunction disorders. According to Basson & Gilks, psychiatric disease is the most important risk factor for sexual health disorders. More recent research highlights the high possibility that there is an underlying vulnerability to both psychiatric disease and sexual dysfunction.

Depression:

If one has pain while engaging in sexual activities, it is understandable that one would feel frustrated and perpetuate the depressive thoughts. Depression not only may worsen or affect sexuality physically, but it can also affect our sexual arousal and desire, thus affecting our ability to feel pleasure during sexual activity. The Study of Women’s Health Across the Nation (SWAN) confirmed history of recurrent depression to be associated with reduced sexual arousal and reduced sexual pleasure. Even in those that are not diagnosed with clinical depression, our moods can certainly affect sexual function and vice versa. 

Anxiety:

Not only are anxiety disorders a risk factor for low sexual desire or arousal, there is also research that ties anxiety with difficulties achieving orgasm and experiencing pain with sex. In addition, provoked vestibulodynia is ten times more common in women with a history of anxiety disorders. This may be related to the upregulation of the sympathetic nervous system (think “fight or flight” or “freeze”.) When we are more consistently in an upregulated state, sympathetic nerves that are connected to the pelvic floor muscles may cause tension unconsciously. Over time, tense or guarded muscles can develop trigger points, and can create pain with sexual activity.

Conclusion:

Sexual dysfunction is intimately connected with stress, anxiety and depression. Please check out our blog post regarding chronic stress and its impact on your sex life. Of all, depression has the most impact when it comes to sexual function. Treatment should be inclusive and not only include the physical aspect of pain, but also the interpersonal, psychosocial and environmental factors as well. As pelvic floor physical therapists, we can help treat your symptoms physically (pelvic floor muscles, hips, low back, abdominals!), incorporate techniques to help downregulate your autonomic nervous system, and work with you alongside with a mental health professional. As a team, we can help you improve your sexual and mental health! 

References:

Basson R & Gilks T. Women’s sexual dysfunction associated with psychiatric disorders and their treatment. 2018. Women’s Health; 2018;1-16. doi : 10.1177/1745506518762664

Sorenson J. Bautista KE, Lamvu G, Feranec J. Evaluation and Treatment of Female Sexual Pain: A Clinical Review. Cureus 10(3): e2379. DOI 10.7759/cureus.2379

Tayyeb M, Gupta V., Dyspareunia. [Updated 2021 Jun 11]. In: StatPearls [Internet]. Treasure Island (FL): StatPearls Publishing; 2021. 

Yazdanpanahi Z, Nikkholgh M, Akbarzadeh M, Pourahmad S. Stress, anxiety, depression, and sexual dysfunction among postmenopausal women in Shiraz, Iran, 2015. J Fam Community Med 2018;25:82-7.

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Testimonial by Mary L.

I started seeing Heather to treat my Interstitial Cystitis in November 2016. At this time, I was extremely miserable, in constant pain, and felt as though no one was listening or understood what was going on with my body. I have just finished my last appointment and I can honestly say that my life has completely changed for the better because of Heather and her team of PTs! I live almost completely pain free, and when I do have flare ups, I am able to treat them at home on my own. I am so grateful that this office was recommended to me a honestly cannot recommend them enough!

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Testimonial by Amanda W.

Heather's unique physical therapy program literally changed my life! After years of struggling with vaginismus, a condition that made it impossible for me to have intercourse and very difficult to use tampons without pain, a gynecologist referred me to Heather. I was nervous for my first appointment, but Heather's professional and friendly demeanor put me at ease. She did a great job explaining each technique she was using to help my muscles relax. Heather uses a combination of internal and external stretches and exercises to relax the pelvic floor and build muscle strength. Her specially developed home program helped me quickly recover from an issue that seemed insurmountable before meeting Heather. She was optimistic about my progress and incredibly encouraging. Less than 6 months after my first session, I was able to have pain-free sex for the first time in my life! If you are suffering from vaginismus or any other pelvic floor issues, I highly recommend making an appointment with Heather and reading her book!

-- Amanda W., 2/15/16 via Yelp!

Testimonial by M.M.

My husband and I were married for 5 years and unable to have intercourse, but I never knew why. After numerous awful experiences at doctor’s offices (where many doctors told me I “just needed to relax”), a surgery that didn’t fix the problem, and a year of owning dilators that didn’t get me anywhere, someone finally referred me to Heather for Physical Therapy. I finally had answers and information from someone who knew exactly what I was dealing with!

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Testimonial by A.B.

Before I was referred to Heather Jeffcoat I was living in a nightmare. I had been married to my husband for three years and I was suffering from Vaginismus. That all changed when I visited my OBGYN and she said she knew of someone with a great success rate. To be honest I was hesitant at first because my first doctor had already told me that all I needed to do was order dilators from the internet and I should overcome my problem. She was wrong because I had followed the book on how to use the dilators with absolutely no advancements in my condition. However, that all changed when I went in for my first visit and Heather took the time to explain my condition and how we were going to work together to overcome it.

I remember leaving her office with a glimmer of hope that I could live a normal life. As my sessions continued I began to see immediate results. With only four sessions and a strict dedication to my home programs I was cured of Vaginismus. In the beginning of this process I was made aware that my health insurance company might not cover the costs, which was disappointing but today I can say one hundred percent that it was the best money I ever spent. Now thanks to Heather I am finally enjoying my life to the fullest with my husband. Thank you Heather, I can’t begin to tell you how much I appreciate all that you have done for me. I will never forget it. Those who are suffering from these types of conditions don’t be afraid because she makes you feel so comfortable and the end result is worth it. Good luck to you all and I hope you experience the success I have.
-- A.B.

Testimonial by Mary L.

I started seeing Heather to treat my Interstitial Cystitis in November 2016. At this time, I was extremely miserable, in constant pain, and felt as though no one was listening or understood what was going on with my body. I have just finished my last appointment and I can honestly say that my life has completely changed for the better because of Heather and her team of PTs! I live almost completely pain free, and when I do have flare ups, I am able to treat them at home on my own. I am so grateful that this office was recommended to me a honestly cannot recommend them enough!

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Testimonial by Fritzette H.

I went to Heather after the birth of my third child. It was lucky, really, that I was referred to her, because my doctor had referred me to a surgeon for a possible hysterectomy or pelvic wall rebuild. Thankfully, I went to Heather before undergoing either surgery, she was able to fix the problem. She has studied extensively in women's health--even written a book about it--and was able to diagnose my problem, suggest a course of treatment (6 weeks), and then follow through with said treatment. By the end, as she said, I was as good as gold. Boy, was it worth it! Though uncomfortable to talk about, much less write about, it is worth getting the word out there. If you have painful intercourse, especially after birth or other trauma, the treatment may be as simple as Physical Therapy (with Heather, of course). I highly recommend her.

-- Fritzette H., 3/24/16 via Yelp!

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